this is supposed to be happy

[sepowers]

I had my baby 6 days ago and the day I had him my babies father broke up with me and now hangs out with another girl and her kid 24/7 he promises he didn't leave me for her but he has promised a lot...

[soontobemommaof3]

I know that must hurt...and I'm sorry u have to go through this but screw him! And u have a family ur baby and u :) that's all the family u need if the babys father doesn't want to be in Yalls life u 2 deserve better!

[sepowers]

That's what upsets me all I've ever wanted was a family now its mommy baby and sometimes daddy...this is far from what I wanted but I always knew it would end this way he told me all the time he wishes I wasn't pregnant he would talk horribly to me I feel dumb for staying for so long but all I wanted was a family

[Nichole05]

Its ok to have these feelings, i took a lot from him just because I always wanted to have my family coming from a broken home myself. I would allow him to come back in our lives whenever he wanted even though i knew he was just on the rebound from the other girl. He even ended up getting her pregnant after my baby was a few months old and that was even more heartbreaking and it took me a while to get over it but i did. If he can walk out of both of your lives on what should be one of the happiest days for you both then you are better off without him, it may not seem that way now but you will understand.

[sepowers]

I keep saying I have something much more important in my life than to worry about him but its so hard I feel so selfish for being so upset over this

[Nichole05]

I knew how you feel with my 1st i caught her father out with another woman and her 2 kids after my baby was only a wk or 2 old, im sure it hurts like hell but trust me you get over it. if he wants to be in your childs life let him but if not do not force the issue. Its all about your son at this point and no one else should matter. Now my daughter is 6, im married to someone else and 27wks pregnant and to this very day he has regreted that decision and still wants me back but he is to late! Someone will come along and step up for you both just give it time.