omg 25 more days!

[farO_jan]

Just so happy that I will finally see light in the end of this pregnancy tunnel! Then I can finally hold my baby girl. The one thing I'm afraid of is people barging inside my house whenever they want, leaving me no time to spend with my own family. And when my family comes they bring everyone with them, even their little annoying children that will run around in my small apartment and will mostly likely stay till 11pm like as if its a freaking hotel!!! They will definitely show up even if I dont answer their phone calls :(

[steph_ut]

They can say what they want. I would still go ahead and set limits. If they complain about you not being a gracious host the week after having a baby, it will be pretty obvious who is the more reasonable party...

[farO_jan]

They will definitely get offended lol my aunts and uncle's wives will start bitching believe me.

[steph_ut]

I would suggest telling them now that you would like to have some rest/privacy after the birth and to lay out some basic ground rules (e.g., no more than a certain length visit, no visits after x pm). That, and you don't *have* to answer the door. :)