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6646587 tn?1391043347

COINCIDENCE Or GOD??

MY SISTER PASSED AWAY A LITTLE OVER A YEAR AGO. SHE WAS 24 Years old. No kids. But i'm now 24 && i'm due on what would've been her 27th Birthday with a Baby girl!!! It's kind of bittersweet because it's scary! everyones telling me it's a blessing  that i know but it's like my daughter came outta nowhere the doctors told my fiance it's no way he could have anymore children due to his leukemia. So i don't know if i can emotionally handle this gift. Me and my sisters are extremely close so it's just overwhelming. What are you ladies thoughts coincidence or God???
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There is no such thing as a coincidence!!!
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2170635 tn?1357911686
Sorry to be more clear he was born a year after her death getting my days mixed she passed 2011 he was born 2012
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2170635 tn?1357911686
I meant she died at 2pm
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2170635 tn?1357911686
I believe its a gift my nana died Dec 2 2012 and I got pregnant march and my due date was Dec 12 well u started having contractions Nov 31 and he did not want to come out 3 days in labor well when it finally hit Dec 2 I finally started to open up fast and he was born at 1pm and my nana died at 2am I think if I decided to wait for him to drop he would of be born at 2 the nurse gave me a option to push or wait. Know the saying with every death theirs a new life I'm sure my nana sent me my son :) I miss her and I love my baby <3
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6646587 tn?1391043347
@Beckyy thanks hun! Sorry for your lost as well. I wouldn't agree with you more:)
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7446981 tn?1393216927
I can somewhat relate. My husband and i have triedfor so long and finally I'm pregnant after 3 years of trying. His momma just passed away recently too. This would have been her first grandchild. God is always answering our prayers and when something tragic like that happens, he sends a blessing in its place. Congrats.
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6646587 tn?1391043347
Aww from the bottom of my heart i SINCERELY THANK YOU LADIES FOR YOUR INPUT. I really don't talk to about this so thank you all. Oh && yes i believe in God.
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6387609 tn?1393274731
I'm Team GOD! That's Amazing And Bigger Then AllIOf Us To Understand.
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6664508 tn?1385945708
Hi this story is similar to mine,I loss my mother back in June and find out I was pregnant in September, my due date is May 18 and my mom's birthday is May 19, seems like it's all to bitter sweet. But I take it as a blessing and a little gift from my mom to help me and my family through what will be a very difficult time.
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Sorry it posted it twice..
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Honestly I would say God... I'm sorta in the same situation but my sister passed away this last September she was telling me to get pregnent so her 6 month old baby boy could have a cousin to grow up with n protect lol n now I'm due on what would of been her 21st bday this August :) <3 so I believe in my heartthat this baby is a blessing from above.. congrats on being a mommy n just know God blessed you with a great buddle of joy to remember your sister..
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Honestly I would say God... I'm sorta in the same situation but my sister passed away this last September she was telling me to get pregnent so her 6 month old baby boy could have a cousin to grow up with n protect lol n now I'm due on what would of been her 21st bday this August :) <3 so I believe in my heartthat this baby is a blessing from above.. congrats on being a mommy n just know God blessed you with a great buddle of joy to remember your sister..
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7540995 tn?1391791515
Thats a cute story...its god he took someone very special from you but now his giving it back to you with a bigger blessing...congrats on ur baby girl
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7169697 tn?1389437534
I would take it as a blessing from God. ..... I personally believe in God..... you and your fiance now have a chance to have a beautiful baby when you guys were told he couldn't. ..... Good luck with everything and I will pray for you and your fiance and your growing baby (don't mean to offend if you don't believe in God)
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