Delivery

Question

So I am 26 weeks pregnant with a baby boy and I'm worried about labor and delivery. I feel like I'm abnormal because I'm not worried about the pain or anything as I have anything high pain tolerance I anything however worried about my husband seeing the whole grossness of it anything mind not wanting to be with me ever again. I know it's lame but I feel like it will completely change the way he views my "girl" and I don't want that to happen. I've always been a very conservative person as far as my privates go but since I've gotten pregnant it's gotten better where I'm not so weird. Does anyone else worry about the same thing. I definitely want my husband in the room and he can't wait he thinks it's the most beautiful thing but I just think the whole process is gross until my baby boy is here.

KoriAnn · Answer

I was that way,  it stalled my labor a little bit from stressing over it. But eventually I got up the point where I did not care. I just wanted the baby OUT. 
But my fiance says he thinks I am the strongest person he knows, and it made him respect me so much more.

inlovewithmybaby · Answer

Just have him standing by your face tell him to help you and be concentrated on you! He will be rooting you on and helping!he might not see your vagina explode! I watched my sister and honestly was the scariest thing I've ever witnessed lmfao! Her whole vajay got exploded off.

Brynn_Taylor · Answer

Yeah because it's definitely out there. Idk my husband isn't grossed out by anything really but I read on yahoo answers that a lot of men have a hard time going back to it being a sexual thing after. I have even been wishy washy at some points on whether or not I want him in the room.

liamia22 · Answer

Omg I thought I was the only one who thought that way and I kept on telling my husband that I'm worried he will never want to be near me again since he gets grossed out by the simplest things...I'm worried about all the nurses and Dr seeing my business and what not

Flakka213 · Answer

I was kinda worried about that to. As to were he wouldn't see it the same way after seeing a baby come out of there lol But now I don't think he will be paying much attention to how it looks but instead have his mind and heart on the baby's arrival. :)

Brynn_Taylor · Answer

Me too but I'm one of those people who thinks of weird things even when the situation dictates a different mindset. And also even if I don't think of it then I know I will after so it just makes it worse! Everyone keeps Asking me if it nervous and I only am for him not for me.

jill_lewis · Answer

I am the same exact way! Everyone says that once your in labor everything is totally different and you wont even have your mind on that, i hope its true!!