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Please Help very scared

I am pregnant and very scared because I am unsure who the father of my baby is. I am married, which makes this situation even worse!! Here is my situation. My LMP was September 10th. I was with my husband several times throughout the month of September ( at least 2-3 times a week). I have regular cycle that normally last 30-33 days. I was really stupid and went out with some of my co-workers on october 5th. I really don't want to go into detail, but lets just say things got out of hand, and I made a huge mistake and had sex with a guy I work with. Anyways, I was expecting my period on Oct 10th and did not get it. I took a pregnancy test on the 12th and it was positive. So far I have had 3 ultrasounds this pregnancy. The first one put myconception date on September 25th, the next one on the September 27th, and the third one on September 24th. So, I know according to the ultrasounds, it is my husbands baby. However, I am terrified that they are all wrong. Can someone please provide some logical and rational information because I am going out of my mind with worry.
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332156 tn?1266843139
I believe its your husbands.
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You got a positive pregnancy result too close to having sex with the other guy. If you're still freaked out about it, the ONLY thing to give you peace of mind is a paternity test.
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If you are right with your dates. They it is your Hubby's. There is noway you had sex with the other guy on the 5th and got pregnant that fast after.
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426593 tn?1204578816
YUP JOYRENNE IS RIGHT ON THE WHOLE YOU HAD A BFP TO CLOSE TO THE TIME YOU HAD SEX WITH THIS OTHER GUY..I THINK ITS YOUR HUSBANDS BABY TAKE IT EASY!! AND YOU DONT NEED TO BEAT YOURSELF UP BECAUSE YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM THIS MISTAKE RIGHT???!?!??! OKAY SO ITS ALL GOOD BABE!
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Thanks for the advice ladies. I know you guys are probably thinking, what a ****!! It was just a really really bad time in my marriage, I was very vulnerable and I made a huge mistake. I know that looking through the internet is a really bad idea, especially when your in the situation I am in, but I do.... I have read posts about peoples ultrasounds being off and stuff, Do you ladies think its possible for all my ultrasounds to be off by like 8-12 days??
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332156 tn?1266843139
We are here to help you not judge you. I know thats def. not how I am thinking.  
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Ditto to what beautifullychaotic said! Hope you stick around and hang with us candygirl!
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