Facebook rant

[babywim1]

So I Like To Post Things About My Pregnancy On My Page, I Have Quiet A Few Young Moms On My Page. Anytime I Post Something They Butt In And Try To Give Advice. Idk If Its Hormones Or What. But It Makes Me Very Angry. You're 15 And Have A Baby You Pawn Off On Other People! Just Cause You Have A Baby Doesn't Mean You Know Everything. And Its Not Like I Don't Already Know You Can't Determine The Gender At 12 Weeks. Ugh...Its Really Annoying. I May Be A Ftm But I've Been Raised To Be A Mom, A Good One At That. And Just Because I Badly Want To Hold My Baby Right Now Does Not Mean I Want To Give Birth To A .5 Oz Baby.

[kcarter2498]

I made a private instagram for close friends and fmaily and for mommies :) that way only the people who care about me and my baby can post! Lol. If anyine wants to follow me its babydelk.     Ill follow back :) love meeting new moms!

[Cherrishhess95]

Yah, there's no bashing... I'm nineteen. I think people just don't understand that people do things different ways. And it gets frustrating hearing all these people tell me the same thing over and over. Not that they're a bad mom. I'm just tired of them trying to tell me how to do things

[babywim1]

We aren't bashing young moms. I'm a young mom. Its just some of my friends are young moms that are not very good parents. I'm only 18, I'm not saying I know everything, but I do know what's ok for Me and my growing baby. Sorry if this offended anyone!

[hannahandbaby]

Just because someone is a young mom doesn't mean they are a bad mom. I know lots of teenage mothers who take care of their children better than some adults. I'm sick of people saying bad things about young moms. We go through enough we don't need people talking down to us just because we had babies a little early in life.

[Cherrishhess95]

I wish it was just Facebook as well.

[diabetusbiscuit]

Gah one of my best friends just found out shes pregnant too now shes telling me all the things I shouldnt do because thats what her mom told her. Just annoying how people assume their parents know everything...wish it was just fb

[oxmbeav]

its not impossible to determine the gender at 12 wks and i totally know what you mean about girls who dnt evn take care of their kids giving parenting advice, its annoying.

[babywim1]

Yeah. I'm About To Unfriend Everyone But People That Leave Me Alone Lol

[Cherrishhess95]

Yeah! What I don't get is why are people trying to butt in when everyone is different and should get to learn as they go and find a way to do hope they want to. If that makes sense...?

[babywim1]

I was Taking Care Of My niece At 2 Weeks Old Cuz Her Mom Wouldn't Take Care Of Her. I've Read Everything I Could The Moment I Found Out I Was Pregnant, I Attend Classes Lol I Just Want To Love My Baby Lol

[Cherrishhess95]

I tried to just smile and say thank you, but one day I couldn't take it anymore and completely snapped. I haven't heard anything since, of course I'm sure they're a little smarter then a fifteen year old that doesn't know when enough I'd enough. I'm sorry it's frustrating though. I do understand.

[babywim1]

I hate It. But I Don't Want To Be Rude. Cuz I Know They Will Take It Wrong

[Cherrishhess95]

I understand your frustration. I work with a bunch of moms at a radiant. They're all older then me by a year or two and they're about twenty or twenty one. And they ALWAYS tell me what I should it shouldn't do, and I helpedraise all five of my siblings who are at least nine years younger then me. I was raised to be a little mom as well. It's very frustrating.