My great aunt does this calendar thing and ALWAYS GETS THE GENDER RIGHT well at least so far, she's been doing it in the family over 50 years now, and I've told several women in here their genders and they have all msgd me back saying she was right. She told me mine were girls my first two pregnancy and she was right as well. If your intrested on her guess all I need to know is what Month you consieved and how old you were on that month. But I have to be 100% sure that was the month you consieved in order for it to work.
I found out at 14 weeks from a 4d ultrasound place
You can pay to go to an elective ultrasound place to find out early, I found out at 14 weeks. It was $70. I mostly had dreams it was a girl, but they were always vague and I never saw the face. I had a couple dreams it was a boy and they were very clear. I had a feeling from the start it was a boy, now 36 weeks with a boy on the way :)
Find a place near you that does early gender ultrasounds. That's what we are doing,I'll be 14 weeks and 4 days when we go to find out. My ob won't do it before 20 weeks either so we are willing to pay to have it done but it includes a DVD,which my doctor does not offer so its worth the money.