How early can I put child support on my ex husband,

[flowerbombnelly]

I signed for my divorce today , I got served  with them yesterday morning n I signed today , only question now is how soon can I put child support on my ex husband , cus he has a very good job n is also in the military so I need  help n advice pls .....

[flowerbombnelly]

@valarie21 , I have a appointment on Tuesday but I'm hoping all this stress doesn't harm my ill man ,, I'll let u kno Tuesday though if it's cleared I feel way better though ,  
@ baby g ,,, yea I kno he should of known better but I'm kno how hard he worked to get in there
@ nanny ..noo I have nothing for my baby at all he isn't guna give it bak ither
@ Caroline I think I a go today to talk to someone
@ treregarcalva he is a marine but I think it's something I have to do I need help in gettin my sons stuff and have him stop harassing me

[teregarcalva]

I would definitely take it up with the military and let them know what happened. I'm not sure what branch he's in but if he's a Marine he'll get in trouble for abandonment and cheating . He'll probably get NJP'd, non ranked, and half pay. This is how the do it in the Marines at least. You can file for child suport once the child is born but he would have to claim both children as his dependents in order for them to get the benefits. I'm not sure if he unadopts your son once you divorce but I would for sure get his *** on child support for the baby your carrying.

[carolinecorinne]

You won't mess up his military career. All that's gonna happen is they will get his medical benefits and child support if it's filed for.  

[nanny_alijah]

Did he atleast give you the babys stuff back?

[Babyg92]

Um. He should have thought of that before leaving you. He left you remember that and also was around the other women. Speey gun but you should take it to the military ot would help a lot for the babys sake. Praying for you momma

[valarie21]

I REALLY wouldn't worry about messing up his job since he hasn't worried about you in any way shape or form. He did this to himself. You didn't ask for Any of it. Like u said,  get what rightfully your kids deserve.  

[valarie21]

I agree^^ im sure it's been so hard on you. I couldn't imagine. Your a strong women that's forsure... But u do have to wait for the baby to be born to put him on child support. How is the little man doing anyways? Had your infection cleared up?

[flowerbombnelly]

That's what my mom told me to envolve the military so that my kids cn get what's rightfully there's , but I also don't wana mess up he's job der ither

[flowerbombnelly]

He legally adopted my first born wen we got married so it's he's son by marriage n I'm pregnant by he's kid

[nanny_alijah]

After you have the baby. You should go to the person above him and tell him what he did, He can get in trouble with the military for abandonment. They take marriage seriously

[Babyg92]

Do you have another kid with him or are you pregnant with his only kid right now?