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[Star368]

Hey ya'll ' I feel like I have nobody but myself  . the father of my child is a *** hole ' He said **** me earlier & My family doesn't really want me to keep the baby . I'm always crying & Sad ' I try to pray every night ' but I feel nothing is going good.  I'm so tired I'm 13weeks & I'm only 18teen it's just too much but I don't want to give up & get adoption or abortion I just can't .. all I want is the father of my child to be there. I don't know what to do..

[sabrinadawn112]

i am going through the same thing. i was told to get an abortion several times. My baby's father said his parents will pay for it. One day he says he knows its his then the next he's going around denying our child basically telling everyone Im a liar andcrazy. the last time we talked he told me that he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and that he didn't care if it was his or not. he said when the baby grew up and tried to find him he was gonna tell him to go take a hike. He party's and drinks and smokes. his dad told me that if i wasn't so easy i wouldn't be pregnant. My baby's dad even threatened me knowing im.pregnant. Life can be cruel sometimes butyour not alone. i struggle with happiness everyday but our babies feel what we feel. we have to stay strong for them <3 keep your head up. It's a long journey but it'll be worth it. i have a quote that keeps me going. "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, then it's not the end" Good luck !

[Star368]

Thank y'all so much ' I really do take heed to everything that yall say & Thank y'all for the support ..

[Staceyyyyy91314]

Since you have expressed your belief in God, I feel it is ok for me to tell you that God gave you this child for one reason or another. Stay faithful to God and trust in Him, He is all you will ever need. God works in mysterious ways. Im here if you ever need to talk to someone you can message me on here. Stay strong and keep faith, everything will turn out for the better(:

[kcanario]

I am very sorry u r going thru this. I had my first when I was 17. My dad kicked me out and I was force to get married and my husband was no where to be found for awhile. I was alone and a single mom working and trying to make life.... it has been 8 yrs now and hubby and I are having child #3 and we are happy. Men go through stages. Please dont think of abortion God gives every baby a reason to be born in this world. God will never give u something u cant handle. Keep your faith and keep praying-it will be ok. Remember the bible says "Even if my mother or father forsake me, God will never forsake you"..prayers r with u!!!

[hersheyma]

You have to do what you have to for yourself and this baby....get focused on s plan..try to get away from all the negativity...you have us to talk to...i hope things start to feel better

[Catelinalove15]

I agree with monk 2043..
I went through the same stage at your age especially fighting depression even now my bf questioning if the baby's his. Men are just stupid but I pray everyday and God doesn't give you something he knows you can not handle or overcome.. and now you have lil baby who you know will love you and never question it. So it's something worth holding on to.. and that baby will make you the happiest mom.. just love it more and God will continue to bless you. Trust and believe! (:

[karencitax3]

Im sorry that you are going through this feeling, please take abortion off your mind. God gave you this blessing for a reason, whatever reason that is you can do it just be strong! You are young but your life isn't over it is just starting. I had my first at 15 and I did it all alone, I raised a baby girl on my own in the streets for a week because my mother kicked me out when I was pregnant and my childs dad decided to kick me and the baby out at 3am when she was recently born because she was crying.  Some guys are a**h**** but some man up hopefully your babydad is just going through a stage where he is scared. Everything is gonna happen for the best future for you and your baby.  Keep your head up, you can do it

[Star368]

Thank you & you have helped just by takeing time out of your commenting on here..

[monk2043]

I'm so sorry to hear that your going through this. :( it is very sad! Obviously god wanted you to have this baby for whatever reason! Just be confident and there are plenty single moms out there that do a wonderful job! A good friend of mine had a baby at 16 and has been a single mom forever To a disabled child at that. You can do it with or without them! Just keep your head up and be happy :) your creating life it is truly magical and a blessing! your baby's dad might just need space right now and remember he is going through a lot to it was very ruff in the beginning for me and my husband and we still have a hard time here and there. Pregnancy takes a toll on your emotions. But we ended up being fine and worked thru it. Just try to do things that make you happy. You feel very alone in pregnancy even if your not alone so you will get through this and it will pass ok. Take it day by day! I'm sorry :( wish I could help