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2181422 tn?1400511380

Husbands, boyfriends, or baby daddies

I just wanted to throw a post out there about all these wonderful guys out there. I am truely blessed to have an amazing husband who works so hard so that I can be a stay at home mom to our 3 year old and soon to be new born. We come from two very different families and that seems to be the only big issue we seem to come across in our relationship but even with that stress its nothing compared to what some couples go through. My husband made me a nice bath before going out to buy the bat man movies for me so we can have a marathon date night leading up to the premier of the brand new one! I know he's tired from work. And stressed from anything under the sun but he still tries and tries to make sure our family is happy. I think sometimes I don't realise all the little things he does for me and may take then for granted at times. Sitting here in the bath waiting for him to come home writting this about him has got me in tears * dang hormones lol* any who enough about me and my amazing guy feel free to tell about yours Id love to hear about em and with all the stress the us ladies go through with pregnancy and life I think its time to give the good guys a shout out (:
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My husband and I have been together since high-school. We have two children 6 and 7. They will both be having birthdays within the next month.  I am now 35 weeks with our last baby so we will have 3 birthdays plus school starting in August from now on. How crazy. We didn't plan this last one and I would say I am mostly responsible for letting it happen because I hated the way I felt on BC pills. When I found out I cried because we thought we were done with babies our car only fit 2 kids!!! I also had shingles on my face during the first month of pregnancy and later lost my job for being prego. So needless to say it has been financially stressful during this pregnancy.  But he sold his motor cycle so we could get a bigger car and has worked day in and day out to keep us afloat.  I am so thankful for him, I feel guilty because maybe it wasn't my fault I lost my job or got sick but I was the one who didn't keep up on my end of the deal as far as BC goes. He still finds the time everyday to rub my belly and is always willing to feel all the little kicks and hears endlessly about my discomfort. Also our sex life has suffered a little because I am just not feeling sexy or in the mood for that matter. I still try to fulfill his needs as much as possible.  I am ready for this baby to get here and to get back to myself so I can do more for him like he has donefor me this last almost year and so I can get back to work and help support this family!!! Thank you Scott for being such a great dad and husband you have exceeded any of the expectations I had ever had.  Thanks for this post it is nice to be able brag about him he has always been there he truly is my rock.
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Though I'm not pregnant but am trying to be, my husband will be the best and most supportive father ever. He's great now and we don't even have kids yet! I pray to God that I am able to give him a child because it would make him the happiest man alive. I look forward to the day I'm able to tell him that we're having a baby and I hope that time comes sooner than later. He will be an amazing father.

It's nice to know there are good men out there holding it down and taking care of their women. It's far more than just money and providing but about spending time and energy and I'm very grateful to have someone that does just that. I'm also happy for those who have that.

For the women who don't have a good man in their life and having a baby or raising a baby... Do what you can to support your children. I admire you all and have nothing but respect for you! God bless ladies!
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1798025 tn?1333814468
Though I'm not pregnant but am trying to be, my husband will be the best and most supportive father ever. He's great now and we don't even have kids yet! I pray to God that I am able to give him a child because it would make him the happiest man alive. I look forward to the day I'm able to tell him that we're having a baby and I hope that time comes sooner than later. He will be an amazing father.

It's nice to know there are good men out there holding it down and taking care of their women. It's far more than just money and providing but about spending time and energy and I'm very grateful to have someone that does just that. I'm also happy for those who have that.

For the women who don't have a good man in their life and having a baby or raising a baby... Do what you can to support your children. I admire you all and have nothing but respect for you! God bless ladies!
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2181422 tn?1400511380
(: good I'm glad!
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3094227 tn?1340939908
You right about that I have a good support group and that's all that matters
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2181422 tn?1400511380
I love these! And cassieonda is so right! For those who don't have an amazing guy by them they will find one someday deffinetly when you least expect it! (: I also wanted to add that for the single ladies or the ones that have baby daddies that are not so good even a shout out to whoever helps support you or help you out or even make you feel good. Weather that's a family member or friend. And for those who don't have that then shout out to yourselves! For all that you go through and what you have to do for yourself and your babies!! I think that deserves just as much recognition as the guys (:
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