I Dont know if I'm pregnant, with irregular periods

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Ok long story to start off I have irregular periods. Nd I'm tryinn hard to get pregnant with ma fiancé. But I don't know wen I ovulate nothing. Last month ma bf ejaculate mutiple times and I haven't notice anything so far. But last week I was suppose to get ma period on tha 7th but it was late. The on tha 11 I started wit back pain, then the next day I had more back pain, stomach cramping nd spottin but the next day tha spottin stopp I still had back pain. Then on tha 14 I start bleeding lik a menstrual but ma menstrual lasts 7 days dis one only lasted 3 days and yesterday me and my fiancé had intercourse  nd he ejaculated again but I don't know what to think I havent had no symptoms. Can someone please help me try and figure this out. And p.s I'm takin a pregnancy test morrow jus to see what I get. I hope it's positive.

Bayb_girl · Answer

I been having the same thing feel sick everyday in my stomach cramps and aches like crazy lower back pain I can't eat certain food becus I get sick very tired I vomitted a few times I'm constantly belching my stomach is really bloated and tight I'm starting to think this is not period since my cycles are very irregular I used a fertility monitor for that situation.. Its been days I was real lazy and drained.. Constantly hungry I never ate so much before and when I knew I wasn't prego and I wuld eat sumthn big I would be done and not want anymore thats not the case now for me it sound like u are hun

Lola_Paris21 · Answer

Okay so I need help. First off I have Irregular Periods. I say out of the whole year my period will come on 4-6 times In that year. I had moved but came back to visit and that night (On a Saturday) so had went to a Party (June. 13th) The next morning I went over to my Ex house (we was still talking somewhat) and we had sex. We didn't use a condom. He pulled out. I ended up moving back home but when I was away I was having the worst lower back pains there could ever be. That's a sign of me knowing that my period was coming on. July 4th-9th my period was on and It was extremely heavy. It was so bad to the point that I would have to put a tissue on top of my pad because my panties was getting messed up. Finally my period was off and I want to say two days later I had sex again with my ex. While having Intercourse It was starting to hurt. That was the last time I had sex. Since my period I was having nothing but headaches. Everyday they could be real small and minor one minute then big and bad the next. The side of my left and right boob feel sore when I touch It and lay on my chest. My lower stomach Is starting to hurt and feel heavy. Feeling like cramps down there and around my pelvis. Every morning I feel sick. Not needing to throw up. Just sick In my lower stomach and heavy. I've been lazy and sleeping all during the day. I took 3 tests In the afternoon and they came up negative so I'm like okay I'm not. But then I still be feeling the same way everyday and tummy starting to feel a little hard so I'm still guessing am I pregnant and If I am then how Is It possible? I honestly don't remember my last period before the one In July.

Pookie1989 · Answer

thanxz for the replies i reallly appreciate all that you guyz say......Since i really dont have friends lik that or even family i can talk to...its good to hear from others.... And i noe having a job and having insurance is the keys thngs to having a family.... cause no job means no money, no insurance means my health will be bad for me and the child.... But all those things i can get..nd insurance i can go to welfare nd get back. And the reason y i dont have insurance is because welfare, wen i turned 18  i was cut off then wen i went baq to skool i was put baq on but since im not in skool i get nuttin.... nd im not embrassed to b on welfare......And as far as in the tyming me and ma fiance decided its a gud tyme i dont like to go out, im always home bound, i dont buy things for myself as one should lol it goes towards ma nieces, nephews, even my fiance...... And ive had years of Experience being with kids knowing what they need nd the late nights ive there & ready for it... having kids is My dream....But i havent had no symptoms since jus i took the last pregnancy  test, but there was one line nd a faint line... but idk... its still confusin....

luvloveluv · Answer

some people have to try harder than others to get pregnant while others can do it in a heart beat, but honestly, you have to let it come naturally, as it will. if you don't, your mind will play tricks on you and give you symptoms of pregnancy, and you'll just disappoint yourself in the end when it's a bfn. my advice to you is enjoy your new life together, get to know each other more, and physically prepare yourself for the day you do become pregnant. as i tell my sister in law, babies change things, you have to be super mom. no more partying, no more free time to spend on herself, no more splurging on herself, baby comes first, as a responsible mother. diapers or formula? formula or clothes? clothes or medicine?

have you tried public assistance/welfare? i know some people would rather die than go on welfare, but it's always a last option. Planned Parenthood if you guys have one in your area. if you believe you're pregnant, seek medical help, even if you believe you're having a miscarriage. good luck to you, and congrats on your engagement!

sweetpea03 · Answer

It may be a good idea to hold off on trying to conceive until you have a more stable life going for you. It's important to have health insurance and a stable job in order to provide for a baby. Also, you could enjoy your wedding and new husband a lot more if it's just the two of you and you are not pregnant yet. A good friend had morning sickness really bad on her wedding day and throughout her honeymoon, which was not fun at all for her. Just some things to think about. When you are ready to try to conceive, don't worry if you can't get pregnant right away. It can take any normal, healthy couple up to a year to get pregnant. Though right now, I would recommend that you see your doctor. You can go to your local county health clinic or another clinic near you to get checked out, since you don't have health insurance. Take the bus/public transportation, ask a friend to drive you, or ride a bike there, but you still should really see a doctor. Good luck.

Clysta · Answer

If you have no job, insurance or a way to doctors, you should strongly reconsider a baby because you'll need all three to support a child. 

Only way to know if you're pregnant is by blood work or pregnancy tests.

Pookie1989 · Answer

i wish it was that eazy right now i just left my job i have no insurance nd i have no way of gettin to the doctors. Or even a way of goin to the hospital to get charity care. i dont knoe what to do.....

cr2009 · Answer

Go for a blood test. With irregular periods that is the only real way to know

Pookie1989 · Answer

thanxz for ur advice really helped... but i took the test last week nd it was neg.... nd i took another today but i think becuz i was nervous i messed up so i need to go buy another test... but im having this feelin dat i had a miscarriage... Idont know what to think at dis point.....And now my fiance is blammin him self and im blamming myself cause maybe theres sumthing wrong with me....I dont Know what to do!

devine76 · Answer

it could be implantation bleed that can sometimes mimic a period you could be pregnant take first morning urine only if negative leave a week and try again cos it might be to early. but i would reccomend having a blood test at your g.ps office thats the only thing that worked for most. and i was 3 plus months gone. and i had bleeding every month till about 6/7 months it was the scan that showed my pregnancy cos my belly was enlarging and i was young and scared and i had no breast tenderness till after i found out i was pregnant my mum and nan was the same they bleed with there pregnancys to. but every pregnancy and person is differn't. if your not pregnant then i would suggest buying online early cheep detection ovulation test and pregnancy test there realy cheep and work.. you should ovulate half way throug your cycle but as your irregular start testng about ten days into your cycle meaning from first day of period is classed as day 1 untill you get the same colour test line or near to that coulour then thats a positive any other positive after that time ignore but if towards the end of your tww and you keep geting a positive you might be pregnant.. remember thow the first positive ovulation test is the true ovulating day.. and then the next 12/24 hours later the egg is released but can only live for 12/24 hours where as sperm can live between 3/7 days start having intercourse a few day before you ovulate and a few days after so theres plenty of little swimmers already made its way up there to give you a good chance for your eggy.. good luck and i hope iv'e helped.