I'm back :( unhappily. after I had my baby May.20th

[kaidenjmom]

I just had my daughter May 20th. And I'm 3 weeks pregnant. :( after exclusively breastfeeding like I did my oldest son and being on birth control  and using protection  and not even finishing because it hurt.........I am pregnant. I'm so overwhelmed with emotions. I'm not happy about it at all. my 3 year old starts school next month, so I will have a 10 month old, a new born and a three year old.

[kaidenjmom]

Thanks everyone. I guess the initial shock is taking a toll. Plus I feel embarrassed to even tell people I'm pregnant again. Not really sure why I'm worried about what anyone has to say, but I am.

[camomommy_3]

I have a son turned 5 in may a two yr old and a little boy on the way. Things are crazy already. I understand completely. Good luck with whatever u choose to do..

[LadyBeeley]

Im pregnant and caring for a 3 month old. I will be graduating in the spring and will be taking care of an 11 month old and newborm the last two months before graduation. You get pell grants if you apply for your first 8 semesters. No debt and they give you enough to help a little with paying for clothes and necessities for children as a mother while caring for children. I take my classes online. Its not easy doing it full time but it is possible. Your plan isnt off track just even more blessed. If you believe in God or fate then you know the toughest battles go to tge strongest warriors.

[Emi10172013]

Everything happens for a reason I'm pretty much in the same boat my oldest will turn 2 August 19th, my middle son is 9 1/2 months old, and I will be welcoming baby boy number 3 on August 25th...it is hard sometimes but you just take it one day at a time I will be praying for you

[Suly787]

@kaidenjmom some colleges offer online classes. You can talk to the advisors from the college and check on that so you can at leasy do like 1 or 2 classes. Just suggesting, I'm on college ftm though but I'm having the worst sickness and I'm doing online classes.

[nikkirilling]

Look at it this way if god didn't think u could do it he wouldn't of blessed u again.

[kaidenjmom]

I could never end a pregnancy or give a baby away. It would hurt me too much. I'm just so sad because we had it all planned out. And it WAS working. We had our son first. Daughter the years later. And that was supposed to be it. I just enrolled in school! I was supposed to go back to college this year. And work on starting my career... That can not happen now. At least not right now, because I have the toughest times during pregnancy. I won't be able to attend school. :( sorry if I'm being annoying. Just need some encouraging words right now. For goodness sake! I will be breastfeeding two children at the same time...

[Meagnbabies]

I don't think I'd ever be able to do adoption or abortion. Everything happens for a reason. I got pregnant when my daughter was 15 months old but even if I would have gotten pregnant sooner I'd still try and look at the positives yes it will be a struggle but you are tough and will get through it =)

[cirab]

U sound very head strong dont.do adoption or abortion everything happens for a reason

[flaka88]

Let me about it..I have a 6yrs 10months old n very soon a newborn also..idk how im guna do it I no 1will be in school idk if il be taking her to her 1st day :(.

[pandamomnium]

Yikes. . .well. . Obviously you were meant to get pregnant again hun. Maybe adoption? But a good friend of mines mom had her babies back to back like that and she said she actually liked them being that close in age.

[iLovekjoy2]

Were you on the mini pill?  They say one slip up while taking those and you'll get pregnant quickly! I was on it but luckily I never got pregnant while taking it.

[baby_love2014]

Maybe adoption is the way to go. Wow i can't imagine how hectic things will be. You're a mom though ....you can handle anything!

[mollymarley94]

What kind of birth control did u use? I understand your pain but you guys should just do what u think is best because if u have your baby then you can always work something out with your husband to where all your kids are well tooken care of Good Luck

[kaidenjmom]

New born

[kaidenjmom]

I just talked to him, and we both strongly disagree with abortion. At the same time, we don't know what to do..... :( and the new Boehm knew it instantly! I could tell by her actions, and her not wanting to latch anymore.... I'm so sad

[ladytay19]

Aww I kno u are ur You will be ok tho

[FebuaryBaby]

Wow sweetie your hands are full.. talk to the hubby see what he wants to do and decide I'm sorry for the luck but congrats you know you can still have child after all