Yes I feel you on that one because I was drug up after 5cm lol
Yes, pain is pain, but if we really remembered it, I don't think too many people would have more than one child. There's so many different meds to help alleviate it, so don't be afraid to ask if you feel you need it.
This is my 2nd pregnancy I'm only 12weeks but it's not so bad as long as you have someone with you will be fine. I wish you the best of luck with giving birth