Just lonely

[1220LilMama]

I'm suddenly not sure ab my pregnancy. I know that I want my baby and I'm excited. Just very unsure about the future and if my bf will be there. Lately it feels like I always have to ask him to spend time with me. He has no problem going to hang out with his friends or whoever then when I have to remind him ab "our" time, he doesn't understand why I no longer want to after I had to remind him. I get so upset bc it wasn't always this way. There was a time when he felt I was all he had. And I was always there for him. Now, I have to remind him to spend time w me. I'd just rather be alone than be anyone's burden. I've been there, done that before. I just miss feeling loved and wanted and adored...he doesn't get that. And I'm getting tired of being lonely...

[MommyToBe321]

You don't need a guy to make you happy.. I know it feels good to have someone to love you and spend time with you but if he doesn't want to be apart of your life now you don't need him even if he is fathering your child! You have a baby who will love you no matter what. Keep your head up momma things will work out for the best!

[mommyofaria]

I went through the samething with mine...before I got pregnant every moment he wasn't at work he would call text or be with me....two months into pregnancy things changed...I asked him for a break and he took it as a break up..honestly it was the best thing that could have happen for it...yes I was so hurt because I loved him and the love grew stronger because he gave me my first child...but I knew a baby wouldn't make up happy so I learned to let it go... Now I can tell he's wishing things were different....its hard enough being pregnant but you shouldn't have to beg for time....or feel alone...I've been where you been and I know It's hard but make the best decision for you and your child....you know when you've had enough :)