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I feel like a terrible person..

So I'm 10w2d and yesterday I had my first ultrasound. Don't get me wrong I loved seeing my little one but I'm also freaking out because of it. I guess it just made it real to see the baby. Now instead of being excited about everything I'm just scared. All that goes through my mind right now is what if I'm not a good mom or what if I can't do this financially. I would never EVER consider abortion or anything like that, I'm gonna keep this baby and love it unconditionally I'm just so scared I'm going to fail. Anyone else had these feelings? What did you do? And advice would be soo helpful!!
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7601195 tn?1406663344
I was nervous and scared when i saw my baby at 12w and then heard the heartbeat.. Im now 25w 4d with a little boy, and im still a little nervous and scared that i might mess something up..
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Thank you guys so much. I really do hope this fades like you all have said. I'm only 18 so it's just a lot for me to handle right now.
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I felt the same way and i still do sometimes, i recorded the ultrasound and it just so weird to me like i dont even know how to explain it but eventually you just start getting excited. A friemd got me some baby stuff and blankeys and just seeing them was like wow... im really having this baby! And i dont know picking out a name if its a boy or girl ... just do baby stuff and trust me you cant help it but to get excited specially when you see tiny little clothes!
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9182722 tn?1403784024
I cried, I was filled with fear. But it gets better over time.
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9182722 tn?1403784024
Aw, sweetie. I was 11weeks & 5 days first time hesring my baby's heart beat & seeing him so tiny. And that's when it fully hit me. I had an anxiety attack. Trust me, its normal to feel this way.. my son makes 2 months on the 25th of this month and I still can't believe I created him.
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Saw mine on Tuesday 10w4days (guess we might gv birth 2gether) like my mom always says "it takes a community 2 raise a child, Gods grace n ur faith" don't panic I'm scared n excited too but the plans th almighty has 4 me n th little 1 r 2 prosper n not harm us, u wil love ur baby n u wil make it financially jst believe.
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