just trying to destress

[neeeeksx]

am 16 weeks & 2 days last night I found out my boyfriend which is also the father to my child cheated on me once when I wasn't pregnant and then tried to when I was pregnant but also got told he has kissed someone when I was pregnant too which that girl use to be my friend but when I pull him up about it he still tried to lie about it but I told him I have all the proof he then only admits too one which still hurt me but a really dont know what to do because a really like him and hes the father to our baby but ave been hurt before and now hes hurt me too but a couldn't sleep last night because everytime a closed my eyes it's all a could think or see was him cheating with other girls :-(

[mummytwobee]

Hun you deserve better cheating is not a mistake its a choice and if they cheated once 9/10 chance they will cheat again, i was with my ex fiance almost 4 years and he was cheating the entire time i didnt find out until he told me after we broke up. Its hard when you love somebody. But if they are willing to do that to you are they really worth loving? Just really think about it.

[rosey3216]

:(( I know how bad it hurts to have someone look you in the eye and promise you something when they know they have no intentions of keeping it... I don't necessarily think that if someone cheats once that they will always cheat... Sometimes people make mistakes. The way I look at it is, first time it's a mistake, second time its a choice. So the fact that he has cheated more than once with different girls is what concerns me. Idk. I'm not a very forgiving person, I never have been, so idk if I would be able to look past that.. what if it would have been the other way around? How upset would he have been? That could have affected your whole lives considering you're pregnant. It's just not right. But only you can decide if you're willing to forgive him or not. I hope it all works out for ya.

[neeeeksx]

it hurts even more the fact when I have pulled him up before about cheating he's looked me in the eye and promised me he hasn't but that was a lie :-( yeah a do love him he's been there for me through so much but a just dont know what to do ave always said once a cheat always a cheat! he promises me it won't happen again but he promised me before and that was just a lie

[rosey3216]

Aww hun:( I know how much it hurts to be cheated on, and its 100x harder when you're pregnant with their kid... Basically you have to decide if you're going to forgive him or not. Either you do or don't. You can't be in between. Not saying it has to happen overnight, but trust takes years to build and seconds to break. If you're looking for a personal opinion, if my bf/bd cheated on me while I was pregnant??...I couldn't forgive that. Sounds like you deserve better. But, I also know how it is when you love someone... You said you really like him... But do you love him? And are you IN love with him? Best of luck hun I hope you figure it out.