Life is suck :"( , some support please

[Zahra147]

So every time i get pregnant i get really sick and tired, also i'm very animic! So i pearly move without feeling i'm going to pass out! This is my 3rd pregnancy, 1girl 19 months old,1 miscarrige on march and i get pregnant in jun! My husband saide he is ok with my pregnancy and he will support me, and he does help with cooking and taking care of our daughter, but rasintly he have basn complaining a lot! My back hurts so badly so i tried to help as much as i can but when i say i'm so tired he always says that u made this u stoped the contraception pills u made u'r self pregnant!. Moreover, he wants me just to go and try to pass my final exams so he can get scholarship for his master and he is pushing me so badly, then he said he wont let me study after having this baby! So why to make me suffer??? I'm so tired of his actions and he always put it on me!!!
He just complained about my little girl she didn't had shower today!! He is not showing any support dispite his cooking!!!
Sorry if this is too long but he makes me hate life and i just wanna desapear of this life ="(

[Zahra147]

I'll try to do that since he thinks that my hormones driving me crazy!
Thank u very much u helped me a lot and makes me feel better and also open my mind ...
I wish u all the best dear :)

[francadp]

Sounds like the line of communication is broken here. I've been married for 2 years but we've been together for 12 years. I'm 29 years old and 16 weeks pregnant with our first. He's more the "laid back" one on this relationship. I am the "stressor. I worry about everything. At the end of everyday we both know that we can talk to each other about everything and anything. We listen to each other and really HEAR one another. Its one thing to listen to each other but its another to really HEAR each other. I think the two of you really need to communicate what you need from each other and work together to achieve those needs. Its only going to get harder with another child coming...especially without family support. All you have is each other and you need to begin being best friends now before your new bundle of joy arrives.

[Zahra147]

Why no one els replay to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Zahra147]

& thanks huney for u'r support :")

[Zahra147]

I live in uk with him since when we get married "3 years now" my family are back home i'm alone any way just one little sis,4 brothers but no one asking about me!, even my parents they don't phone me! I phone theme!!
he is studying he graduated and he wants master now, he wants me to compleat this 2 weeks for my finals so he can get master, and i can't ispeacialy with his treatment to me!
I'm 11w tomorrow,
I always talk with him and he says he understand but the day after like anything didn't happend!!
He makes me so sad!

[mykids4dars]

So sorry to hear you are having a rough time. Maybe trying talking to him and ask him why he is being the way he is right now? How far along are you? Do you have any other family you can talk too? With my first three that are really close together my ex said he would be supportive but he wasn't but wanted to make himself look good to his family. Just try and take it easy when you can. Good luck

[Zahra147]

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