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So this is my first baby and I'm only like a month pregnant but my boyfriend already has 2 kids and idk if it's bc I'm pregnant now that it bothers me or what but whenever he talks about his daughters I get very emotional but I'm trying to be supportive then his babies mother is always being brought up and that really bothers me to but I don't want to tell him bc I don't want him to take it the wrong way WHAT SHOULD I DO !!!!! Like I feel like crying
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You just have to understand that baby mommy's and daddy's are always going to be their and their his kids be glad he's stepping up even though he might not have him with him most of the time I know a pregnancy can change how u feel about many things it will be hard to tell him ot bugs u trust my I've been woth my husband for 5 years and he still has issues when he sees me talking on the phone with my daughters dad even if its just for a quick second amd its all relating to her pregnancy changes everything try and tell him its ok if u talk about ur kids but pls try not to mention the mom that's all I can say good luck
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Thats is something u have to get over. He has 2 children that deserve his love and attention just like the one u are carrying does. They will be ur childs sinling and they didnt ask to be here. Be a loving and supportive step parent and get over it. U dont want another woman to come into his life and be jealous of your children or get mad that u will need to communicate with him about ur child if u ever break up. So dont be that one. U chose him and what ever he comes with
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