Cramping really bad :(

[gillianl]

I never expect to conceive on my own so this is just to get a little something off of my chest.  I am now currently 14DPO and should be ovulating and i'm cramping really bad in my abdomen this month, this isn't unusual but it's a lot more severe than normal.  TTC when i have this is a nightmare as it can be quite painful, i wish my doc's would hurry up and give me the IVF i need and hope having a child can stop a  lot of the pains i experience every month, but after 3 years and 2 months of ttc i have another 2 years and 4 months before i'll be given IVF.

A long wait, a lot of upset and pain to come just wish i was normal like the rest of the women in my family always wonder why me!!!!!

[gillianl]

thanks guys this site always makes me feel better:)

[gillianl]

thanks guys this site always makes me feel better:)

[Heatherm4]

Aww hunni! I hope you feel better. And hopefully something happens before your IVF date or that the time will fly by for you!

[smjmekg]

I'm sorry. I really hope the next couple years goes by fast so maybe after you do have a baby you can get some better relief.

[gillianl]

i had adhesions in my tubes which they apparently removed also a slight blockage at my right ovary.  The pain had disappeared up to 3 months after my laparoscopy but it's back worse than ever, i actually went to my doc and asked him to remove my tubes if i really had to have IVF but he told me it wouldn't help.  Only hormonal injections would work which meant giving up on my IVF and a baby altogether told him to forget it.

i'm okay with a hot water bottle and really strong painkillers :)

[smjmekg]

Did they not find a reason for the pain?

[gillianl]

thanks i really appreciate that, just concentrating on me and Alan at the mo and taking things in our stride but it can get hard at times especially when i'm in so much pain every month from ovulating and AF :)

[Limonada]

I hope it helped a bit to let that out :)  I'm not sure how IVF works there, but I'll be praying that they can move you up the list somehow - you deserve this SO much!!!