:'(

[Princessmikaa]

So I finally told my mother about me being pregnant bcus she kept on asking me. & just as I expected she want me out the house & she's very serious. She said she's not helping me out bcus I'm stupid for allowing a man to **** me without a condom. I don't really have anywhere else to go bcus most of my family live in a different country & my friends are all around my age (19) so they live with their parents. Idk what to do anymore, I'm trying to stay calm & not stress too much.

[Racheel23]

I'm 18 and in a similar situation. My mum doesn't want me there but I can't have a baby in the accomodation I currently live in. Are you in work or education or anything? Here if you ever need a chat! :) hope everything works out!

[TayyB2706]

I remember those days .. I was 17&pregnant & out of high school .. when my mom found out she told me she wanted me to leave and she wanted nothing to do with me .. so I made plans with my then boyfriend for me to leave and stay with him & his fam .. well when she found out that I was leaving that made her even more upset & gave her the notion that we'd planned the pregnancy then pretended as if she never told me to leave .. I'm telling u this to say ur mom is  just prob upset at the moment, I would still make plans to stand on ur own but hopefully she'll come around .. good luck

[MadrinaSmith]

I'm going through the same thing :/ I know how your feeling

[flowerbombnelly]

Oh sweetie im so srry .. just give ur mom a lil space ask a friend if u can stay the holidays r near ur mom will mayb change her mind .. keep ur head up...

[crissyboo1]

Tell them the trueth! Ur pregnant and ur mom wants u out! That u need help finding a place and a job if u dont have one and baby stuff. They will do what they can!

[4Nheaven1here]

She's probably just in shock that her baby is having a baby I think that's normal at first. Most mom's usually get over it in time. Mean while a women's church shelter would be a good place. I used to volunteer at a few here where I live. Be strong this to shall pass good luck to you momma.

[crissyboo1]

I was 16 and pregnant! I had no one and no place to stay! I went to a local church and they helped me! They got me a place. All the stuff i needed for the place and my baby and me. They even helped me with watching my son after i had him while i went back and finished school! I only paid $125 a month for rent and they paid every thing else till i graduated! All i had to do was go to a teen mom/ pregnancy group twice a month! So check with ur local churchs! If they having something that will help u they will help if they dont they will point u in the right direction. Dont give up things will work out!

[teregarcalva]

Try to see if mayb and aunt or someone would let you stay with them while you get on your feet hun.

[Princessmikaa]

Well the baby father don't really wanna be a part of his/her life but I'm actually talking to him right now & see what he's gonna say. I was thinking about just going away to my family cus they would let me stay there they all have their own house with extra rooms.

[AnnieBrooke]

What about the baby's dad?  Any help from his family?

If not, see if a family member in the other country will help you, both to get there and to give you a place to stay.  

If not, see your local church or women's shelter.

My guess is that your mom will calm down, particularly if she sees that you are leaving and intend to stay at a women's shelter.  Don't throw it at her as a threat, just calmly get ready, and go do it.  That will give her time to consider whether she really meant it or not.