PG OR WAT? HELP!

[babyg808]

okay so me and my boyfriend have had unprtected sex lotssss of times.and i think i am pregnant. my instincts tell me i am. i feel different and ive been realy tired, naesous, dizzy, headaches, pee constantly and its darker than normal. my boobs are really sore, but ive taken 3 HPT'S all negative. although one turned positive after about an hour. ive went to the hopstial they did a urine test, also negative, but still i feel that i am. i dont know. im over 2 months late for my period. although ive experienced irregular periods but for the past 5 months its been reg. (february,march,april,may,june) my last one was june 1st. and ended on the 8th. PLEASE HELP. ant comments are helpful. thanks.

[babyg808]

Yeah your right but i dont know . i wish people would just answer my quetion i posted and stop telling me im too young and bla bla bla. i know all this. i just want my ques. answered, or experiences, or advice. ya know?

[martikadragoon]

as I think Joy, and others have said,

Your body might just not be READY To have a baby, or be physically capable of actually carrying a pregnancy.  You really, REALLY need to speak to an OBGYN about all of this to find out the real risks of getting pregnant at such a young age, because other than the social and mental aspects of it, there can be SERIOUS Physical complications and issues. since your 15 and not done growing, your hips might not be wide enough for you to carry a baby full term and give birth as you should, that might mean a Csection or even more serious risks for the baby.

As I mentioned before, the younger the woman, the higher the risks for Preterm birth, Miscarriage, Preeclampsia/eclampsia that can lead to stroke/death and other risks, but a Doctor would be the best person to go through to find out.

Before you actually continue trying, I would suggest you make sure to get a checkup and find out your risks. I'm sure you'd rather make sure your healthy and strong and developed enough to carry a child, than to deal with complications later on.

[babyg808]

thank you, i understand. i guess i just want to know for sure that i CAN actually have children because sometimes i feel like i cant. cause it hasnt happend yet ya knw?

[AngellaHas2]

Okay, I guess we are have this alarm that goes off when we see a teen who says they want to have a baby. And in some countrys its normal. But not in ares. Its sad to see a young person put such a hold on there life. And in some ways in selfish. But we are here to help her. And in no way do we want to judge you. So please don't get affended by are thoughts or opinions.  But some of us have had children at a young age, and it has put such a strain on are lives. Some come out of it and go on to make a great life for themself. But other end up not being able to. And I dont want that to happen to anyone. I only had my child at 18. Its been a long ten years. And like you. Yes I had money. My daughter had everything she wanted. She never went without. But it but off alot of my youth. I couldent go out or have a drink for my 21st birthday. I had ot stay home. It sucked. I had to put off school because I didnt trust any day cares. And none of my friends had time to watch my daughter.  So like just changes when you have a child. And I think that is what everyone here is trying to tell you. But I am not going to judge you. Its ur life, and you do what you want. But just take a moment and think a little more and be sure you can provide for this child on all aspects.

[tuggletee]

by the way, i want to mention again that i wasn't trying to be rude. i know i kind of sounded that way. i think my hormones are going crazy haha.

[tuggletee]

JoyRenee- insight, ragging, it sounds the same to me. but i am just another one of those teenagers(18) who "likes to listen to reason". i understand you all are mothers. i got the point of that since you all mentioned it(sorry, teenage sarcasm). but please notice that i obviously DO listen to reason because i did say she should wait and told her that everyone has some good points =). and by the way not ALL teens think it's cool and the thing to do to have a baby. not trying to argue, just stating that.