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25 alone & scared

This if my first child every I have never been able to get pergnant in the past because I wad told I could not have childern & this just came outta nowhere I told the father of my unborn I was pregnant his 1st reaction was happy a few hrs later he was asking me to abort the pregnancy Ive had mix feeling since I find myself cring every time I think of it but at times    I just cant wait to see him/her Im not sure if I can do this own my own im so scared the only thing that keeps me going is my support from my family & friends, doed anyone know any support groups I could call to find woman In a simular spot like myself
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1744053 tn?1311261983
first of all congrats on the prgnacny, dnt let anyone put you down or tell you to abort... its your lil mircle growing inside you... dnt let it stress you out you have your family n friends and everyone one on this site to help you to hear you out.
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That makes me want to cry! I wouldn't abort your child for anyone! You can do it with the help of your family and friends you won't be doing it alone. If you were told you couldn't have kids and you got this miracle it sounds like it was meant to be. You will have lots of emotional support on this site.
God bless you:)
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Thanks you boo's I really need that pep talk & advice ill be sure to keep you posted on my journey to motherhood :)
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1244180 tn?1325899111
o belive me you can do it on your own... look at all the single mothers... you are strong enough you just might not know it yet... I had my firdt one when i was 16 and i was all alone... i couldnt imagine not having my children i would never abort for someone else you will regret it forever.. as you said this baby is a miracle you never thought you would have a baby so embrace it and dont let it go... there is no love like your childs love... you wont belive the feelings you will have for it.. it will surprise you!! sometimes i look at my baby and i just tear up cause the amount of love is just too overwhelming
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1900942 tn?1462421460
On here you have a big support group :)) we are all here to listen to whatever you feel you need to say...im sorry you are going through this especially at such a precious time in your life...if you need anything dont be afraid to message me :))
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