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5609181 tn?1375332372

Rejection..

I just don't know how to deal with my boyfriend rejecting me for sex now. Every single time.. And it makes me feel like sh it and so unattractive and its something we've talked about but nothing comes from it. I don't know what to do.. It hurts me more emotionally than I really care about the sex. I could do all that physical stuff myself haha
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Some guys are scared... But i agree with the first  person . Put on something sexy & just climb on top . Don't let it get you down girl its probably just his own fear ! Just go for it !
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Maybe he's scared about hurting the baby? I had to show my bf lots of stuff online to prove to him he wasn't gonna dent the baby's head
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5609181 tn?1375332372
I wish they realized all that our body goes through mentally and physically and we got some empathy and appreciation!
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I'm in the same position. My boyfriend NEVER wants sex and when he does I have to do it whether I want it or not. I even suggested getting a vibrater so I could at least  get the job done myself and he said if I did then he was going to get a blow up doll. -.- not even a regular one, he pointed out a plus size doll which made me feel even more insecure.. Guys just suck!
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5803968 tn?1378828158
Some guys are like some are even scared they are going to.hurt they baby
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5609181 tn?1375332372
Well forget his manhood! He's hurting his pregnant girlfriends touchy feelings haha I didn't get like this on my own
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I think its a touchy subject with men. like it hurts their man hood haha
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5609181 tn?1375332372
Well thank you haha but he just keeps saying nothing is wrong which makes it even worse. I wish he'd at least just say it weirds him out if that's what it is but he just shrugs it off and nothing ever gets solved.
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Some men are weirded  out by sex when his girl is pregnant. Just try and like rape him one night haha. dress all sexy and climb  on top. that's what i ended up doing after my man wouldnt touch me for weeks. and i havnt really had a problem since. And i wouldn't take it personal. ur a beautiful young lady.
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