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[Zahra147]

So i had my little girl on 18/12/2012 by emergency c section...
Now i'm almost 12W with my second baby"3rd pregnancy",
So my question is if i wanted to try having this baby natural would it be very painful dawn their?? Are they going to tear me? How i would be able to move or walk around? Does my vigaina will look the same after words??
I'm soo scared of having natural labor :(
I couldn't go to the towilet for 10 days after c section to do number 2 i was so scared, what if i had a tear i think i'm not going to inter the bathroom>_<
Please ladies help me i'm so worried!!

[Zahra147]

Actually my c section was great & i had epidural bc i was going natural but my cervix wouldn't open & my baby stucked from her foot bc i have heart womb shape, but i was scared of puhing my healthvesitor sugested that a take a pelow and press a litle bit on my tummy to make it easier also i get scared even with the pelow i thought i'll split up, she told me u'r scar won't open but didn't healp for real , my friend was taking care of me so she kept giving mr orang juice untill i get dihrea in the end and maneg to do it!
Then after mor 5 days i was able to push and i wasn't scared as much as i was, i aant to go for c section but my husband says ther is no rational women go to c section whil viganal healing is faster!!
But i'm just scared of the tear idea lol
I'll speak to my midwife about it, and i totally agree with u our budies made for that,

Thank u very much ladies for the advice i feel better now

[ash060115]

I agree with @ladybeely our bodies are made to deliver babies...
I hope to vbac but seriously you need to do something bout your fear of going toilet.

[LadyBeeley]

I had an all natural (except the pitocin to be induced) vaginal childbirth with my first and had a 2nd degree tear. Your vagina actually goes back totally to normal (my bf says it actually fely tighter and I hear this from a lot of ladies on here too). Also if they stitch you they give you a numbinh spray to use as you need it so you dont fedl amy pain down there. Also a peri bottle to help clean you. I have heard from a few women I know a c section was way worse than their vaginal deliveries and they regret doing them. Vaginal birth was seriously a breeze. They way over do it in movies. Yeah the contracrtions are painful but you can get an epidural and it should make you numb to it. I was up and walking an hr after the birth (they had to stitch me) and I didnt even know I tore! My opinion, vaginal is way easier bc our bodies are CREATED for this. They arent meant to be split open with a scalpel.

[ash060115]

If you couldn't go toilet after section because of fear you'll never do it with your whoha stitched :/

I'd a section and recovered fine no issues I pooped peed and ran around as usual.

You need to discuss with your doctor really. .

They will probably offer you another section.
I'm hopin to vbac but if your that panicky I'd go section again

[Zahra147]

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