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Telling your parents

I hid the fact that i was pregnant from my parents for almost two months. It was the hardest thing I've had to do. But, just yesterday I found something even harder than that, it was time to break the news. I followed my mom into her bed room and sat on her bed as she took of her jewelry. she asked what was wrong and I asked her if she loved me she laughed playfully and said no why i was like well I'm pregnant. I say back as she asked me questions. I was afraid of what she'd think of me and if I'd have her support. She then sat next to me and started crying and said "honey, it's hard to see this now but it's a blessing in disguise. Way way in disguise, but if god didn't think you could handel it he wouldn't bless you with it." Now being 18 and having a boyfriend that every one hates I would have never expected this. If you are having trouble telling your parents. I recommend the sooner the better. It could only help to have more support from your mommy. Good knows it took so much stress from mt shoulders. :) tell your parents girls.
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1927715 tn?1392055940
Yes I was 14 and he was 15 we knew.each other in middle school but.I couldn't stand him. Then 9 th grade we started dating. My gram (she raised me )she didn't seem excited. But she.says things to me that you can tell she is. Im sure your mom will come around.
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1911870 tn?1345419009
You met your husbend when you were 14? Wow.. That's pretty amazing. Congrats on having your parents support. My mom acts like she just doesn't care. She hates my bf, I think that's a lot of it. Plus I haven't lived at home since I was 15 and I am 20 now.
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1806883 tn?1458321004
bump :)
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1927715 tn?1392055940
I love this!!!!!! Im 24 married been with my husband for 10 years in march and have been on my own since I was 19. I was still scared to tell them but to my surprise they took it very well. It is a huge relief to just have the news out there. And I was told almost the same thing. For some reason god picked me to be a.mom and.I should embrace it!  Ladies it really is a blessing and it doesn't always come at the right time and it may seem hard now but when that baby comes it will be all worth it!
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