just wondering

[bre1980]

I was just wondering what others opinions on this are.  I am 32 and I had a miscarriage at 21.. No know pregnancies since... Not that I havent been trying but am I getting to old to keep trying... Very discouraged... Every time I have been to doc they say everything ok.. What can or should I do?

[babyinJuly]

I'm 34 and just had my son over 4 wks ago. If the doctor says your fine keep trying, but don't stress it just let it happen on its own. Make it spontaneous, not a job! I have 5 kids, and me being older I'm much more patient. This pregnancy wasn't meant to happen but I wouldn't change it for the world! He's such a blessing! I did miscarry two years before having him. You could do it! Gud luck!

[AnnieBrooke]

Get to a fertility doc as soon as you can.  Ask your ob-gyn for a recommendation.  32 is by no means too old.  I had my first child over a decade after that and couldn't be more delighted to be a mommy.

[sorenr]

I've just given birth at 32. I always said I would stop at 30, oops! It certainly wasnt as easy being pregnant in my 30s as it was in my 20s even though I was much fitter before my last one than I was the other 2. The bonus is, I'm enjoying this one much more than I ever did my other 2, I have more patience and am much calmer (although that may also be because its my third baby).
If you want a baby, then keep trying...dont try too hard (it seems to be a fabulous contraceptive) but dont be put off by your age...when I had my first at 24, most of the ladies I met while pregnant were in their 30's and the parents of my eldest childs friends make me feel very young! Good luck with whatever you choose to do :)

[JBontheway]

It's up to you in my opinion, if you want to have a baby go for it and try. :) I don't think your too old if you can handle it and want one. There are women out there older than you having babies lol so I think if you want it, go for it. And maybe your husband/boyfriend should go get checked out at the doctor, he may not be able to get u pregnant, there are a few different reasons for it, I know low sperm count is a main one. But there's my opinion :) lol your not too old