So Im having a little princess :-) Anyday now , I'm not tryin to make plans for her but me myself I was always on beauty paegents since I was a newborn , but it was always an option my mom never forced it on me they thought me that it was just for fun !!! Then when I got older around 4 I started getting competitive with them I choose to do that ! Like I choose to play sports and play instruments on my own my parents where just very supportive ! When I brought up the paegent convo to my friends they brought up the fact that they are vicious ? And that my child is not going to enjoy her childhood ?