Who is the father of unborn child? :(

[Confused500]

Hi, I don't need negative comments, I made a huge mistake and just need honest advice. I'm confused as to who may be the father of my unborn child. I'm 20 and I've just recently found out I'm pregnant. My lmp was the 13th April, it looked like a normal period and was fairly heavy, lasted my normal 3-4 days, but I didn't really get any cramps only the night before I started which is very unusual for me. My cycles are usually between 29 and 31 days. Anyway, I had sex with guy A on the 8th of April. I had sex with guy B anywhere from the 17th April - 27th I can't actually remember the exact date it was unprotected.. I thought maybe I had ovulated late therefore could be guy A but then surely my period would have been late also? I have heard you can have periods while pregnant which is very confusing. Also I started to feel sick/bigger appetite/lots of thick discharge literally 3 days after sex with guy A. I took a clear blue digital test 2 days after missed period and got pregnant 2-3 weeks, which would rule out guy A but I'm not sure how accurate the conception indicator is especially as I used last urine of the day. Sorry my question is so long I'm really stressing out and who the father is will determine what I do next. Who do you think is most likely?

[AlysMom85]

I WAS IN THEE EXACT SAME SITUATION!! Soooo sure I had it figured out too and everything said and done, I was wrong!! I know its a hard lump to swallow and how judgemental some ppl can be but the best thing to do is BE HONEST with both men and get a DNA test once your little prince/princess arrives! When we found out guy 1 wasn't the father, we were both soo in shock and disappointed that we got a second opinion (same result)!! So I contacted guy # 2, filled him in, got a test and the rest is what it is. Be forgiving of yourself and honest with the men... It's really all you can do!! Good luck!

[AlysMom85]

I WAS IN THEE EXACT SAME SITUATION!! Soooo sure I had it figured out too and everything said and done, I was wrong!! I know its a hard lump to swallow and how judgemental some ppl can be but the best thing to do is BE HONEST with both men and get a DNA test once your little prince/princess arrives! When we found out guy 1 wasn't the father, we were both soo in shock and disappointed that we got a second opinion (same result)!! So I contacted guy # 2, filled him in, got a test and the rest is what it is. Be forgiving of yourself and honest with the men... It's really all you can do!! Good luck!

[FreshLove]

It definitely is not guy A because you had sex with him before your period. And the time you had sex with guy B was right in your fertile window for that month ("best" time to get pregnant). Those symptoms you were feeling a few days after sex with guy A are very common pre-menstrual symptoms that many women (including myself) often get - cravings, increased appetite, increased creamy cervical discharge, breast tenderness, etc. all are period symptoms and considering you started like 5 days after sex with him and within 2 - 3 days of those symptoms, I'm positive that's what you were feeling.
Long answer short, guy B is your baby daddy.

[NicoleW09]

You need a dna test, but I would say guy b. Its impossible to have a true period while pregnant. You can have period~like bleeding when pregnant, but it isnt a period. When you have a period you shed the lining of your uterus which would cause you to miscarry.

[MamaBear0612]

It's more or less a guess until you get an ultrasound and they date you. Women's cycles vary but early ultrasounds are pretty accurate and would really help you figure it out. Try to get one ASAP, the earlier the better for dating purposes.

[JRW93]

I'd say guy B, due 2 the fact that u had ur period April 13th

[boricua4u]

If your last period was April 13th then your sate of conception was April 23rd to May 1. I would say guy B, but I would see what they say your conception date is according to your ultrasound and go from there. B/c ultrasounds can only be about a week off, I would say this is what will confirm whether or not its guy b. Good luck

[siennasmommy]

I agree with everyone else. Get a dna test done but my money us on guy B

[babyinJuly]

I'm going to say the second guy, you had your period so almost slim to none for the first guy. Plus your ob can give you a close conception date and that'll help.

[mushie156]

The doctor would be able to tell how far along you are and this app tell you the day you conceived from the due date

[agrell]

Sounds like guy B to me just because of when your lmp was but your best bet would be to go to the Dr for an ultrasound they can tell you how far along you are to help you figure it out. Best of luck and don't beat yourself up :)

[Jwilliams229]

DNA is the only way to know for sure but I would say guy B.  becuase of the period and the the test says 2-3 weeks.  I am prett sure buy B but like I said the only way to know for certin is a DNA test.  Good luck!