advice advice ADVICEEEED

[newmommy1220]

So I'm officially 8 weeks today. No matter what I do or how I sleep I wake up with his absolutely horrible pain in my neck is there any solutions for it. NOW THE BIG QUESTION. When i finally told my parents I was pregnant needless to say they were pissed but they are starting to come around. now they are suggesting my boyfriend should get married before this baby comes, and have an elopment ceremony with our immediate friends and family and then when we can afford have a real wedding since the church doesn't recognize an elopement as real marriage. We both want to get married we were just hoping to wait like 2 years after the baby and have a huge wedding.  I'm starting to come around to the idea because we both love each other very much and we have been talking about getting married for awhile. I just need some advice on if this is actually a good idea

[newmommy1220]

well we had talked about it and it would be way easier cause his new job is bringing us all to Indiana so I'd also need his health insurance and we do want to get married and we don't care if its huge or a tiny one but we do plan on having a larger ceremony because my whole thing is I'd love to have my little family together (:

[HappyMommyBear]

know what.. its you and your bf choice if you wanna get married or not.. dont let your parents choose and decide for you.. just enjoy.. in the future should the course change at least you decided well.. divorce is a hassle.. if you dont wanna get married yet its ok.. no big deal as long as you're a responsible parent..