am i be silly??

[LaurenBrandon]

I have 20 days until due date, and today I've just had enough of my brother his 21 yr old, older than me, his lives with me and my partner in my house he doesn't nothing, doesn't clean his bathroom, I have to ask him to wash his dishes, I wash his clothes as I don't want him to break my washing machine. I went to mum to have a ***** as I'm sick off him being lazy and the fact he is eating stuff his not meant to. Yesterday he ate a whole roll of devon, 400 grams of pork crakling, two crumbed pork steaks deep fried chips and 4 slices of toast that I know off. And mum turned around and said pretty much its my fault his the way he is and she is sick of me going there bitching and my brother going there doing the same. So I'm thinking if some how its my fault my brother is that way, should I limit the time she will see her grandson, I don't even want her at the hospital I'm so mad at her as I don't see how its my fault that my older brother is lazy, has no job and can't clean up after him self

[lilbitts]

I say tough love works wonders i love my sister with everything in me but i kicked her out there's no reason you should have to keep up with a grown male just think when your baby comes you will be dealing with two children your brother and the baby nip it.in the bud because it will get old quick! Cleaning up after a baby with lack of sleep and energy than keeping after your grown behind brother will **** you off more please don't take your anger towards him on your mom because you will need her good luck momma

[AnnieBrooke]

I don't think a mom can change an adult male.  So for heaven's sake, stop going to your mom, she will not be your ally because she will be so tired of your complaints.  Suck it up and tell your brother that he has to move out.  If you can't afford your rent without him there, tell him that you two are moving and he has to find his own place because yours will be smaller.  Just get him out.  If he is still there when the baby comes, put the crying baby in its bouncer right outside his door when he is sleeping, for about five minutes every day.  He'll move.

ps -- Threatening your mother with lack of access to her grandchild because you are mad at your lazy slob brother seems very illogical to me.  *She* is not the one who ate the pork crackling and Devon roll.

[bonnieella20]

Um kick him out. If he doesnt change kick him out. Otherwise you can't really complain.... if he pays bills he has a right to be there but if its not working out and hes dirty ask him to find anothet place to live. Complaining to your mom is pointless.

[mommycarr1]

Well ur about to have baby ur gonna be worried about the baby u shouldnt have to worry about ur older brother.. and considering he is older than u he should see that ad well or atleat learn to clean up after his self n if he is not workin thats another reason he should be cleanin after hisself bein he doesnt have a job he has time to do so.. n with ur mom im not sure wat to say about that.. idk she should see it as wat im tellin u n she should let him know he needs to be helpin around the house