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Stressed, baby daddy's line of work :-(

So the father if my babygirl is in the music industry , when we started dating it never affected me that he would spend time away from me it was healthy for us and gave us time to miss each other ,he used to show me off , events , clubs, everywhere , when we found out I was pregnant I moved out of the house and everything fell apart it was unplanned , horrible timing and we din't speak at all in 2 months now that he is around again I feel like he is ashamed of me he haven't told all of his family "his mom"  wich is very important I mean he is coming around slowly , I feel us being apart for those 2 months ruined us or maybe any chance of me having a stable family :-( is do stressful , when I see him3 days 2 nights every week  and is PERFECT once I leave he doesn't call or text as often it at all he will ignore my msgs ... I'm very hurt , and dressed dint know what to do
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Hun my fiance's in the same line of work and  I'm almost due, it makes me feel angry and sad that I'm always by myself cause he's at a gig or at practice but as a good spouse all I can do is support him. He's still guna be there for his baby but sooner or later both yours and mines will havta decide what's important? Cause babies grow so fast and they're not guna wanna miss that. So don't worry he'll come around just like mine did, yeah it's their dream but the baby is the new dream. So don't stress ,(:
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Thank you and I have been praying !!!
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Don't worry things will get better if you both work at it. I broke up with my boyfriend two days before i found out i was pregnant. We said horrible things to each other but we've been working so hard to fix things. Now I'm 18 weeks and i can honestly say I'm extremely happy! He caters to me in so many ways, i love it! You just need faith and lots and lots of effort!
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Just Pray Hun, do you pray???
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Ouch that *****. I'm so sorry hun.
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