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confused!!

Me n da boyfriend fight too much..n I'm not even three months yet..he is very violent..wat should I do? Please help
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U need to leave why would u wanna stay with some one that's violent n may harm u u have a baby on the way n now u need to start thinking n putting that baby life before yours love is not suspose to physically hurt! Leave before it gets worse
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3433054 tn?1397115108
Heyyy girl well me and my baby daddy were like that  he even get to jail with I was 12 weeks for hitting me
but I didnt give up I worked thigs out
Like really really worked things out
and now were on our 3rd child
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becareful because he can hurt u to the point u can loose it baby,if this is something normal with u guys just know it isn't going to change. if the baby doesn't wake him up sorry to say nothing will so be careful no matter what we tell u is up to u if u leave or continueto deal with him. No matter if he supports u no man should hit a pregnant woman,u choose to deal with it just letting him know u are ok with it not to be mean but is true,teach him a lesson n be strong. best of luck try not to stress so much it baby feels everything.
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Please get out he can't control u wait till he's asleep call your FAM or friends pack only a few things be as quite as possible your a mother now its your job to protect your child no matter what... go back in a few days for the rest of your stuff with plenty ofpeople you he won't try anything with family with you.. be safe I wish you luck
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7826987 tn?1401691041
I strongly believe that you shouldnt be with a man if you wouldnt be proud to have a son the same as him. If not for you, you have to leave for your child. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. Good luck
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7826987 tn?1401691041
I strongly believe that you shouldnt be with a man if you wouldnt be proud to have a son the same as him. If not for you, you have to leave for your child. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. Good luck
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Thank u...cant really talk he is on me!!
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I believe you know what you should do. You just want verification. And that's ok. Leave! Now! Never let a man hit you, especially when you are pregnant. You are creating a life, you are protecting a life. Please leave. Seriously. Pack up your things and go to family or friends. File a complaint. Its never ok for anyone to be violent to you.
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If he's violent and your still in the stage of dangerous miscarriage then leave him its not worthlosing your child over.. you have to start thinking of him/her ttheir life is important trust me if he doesn't care about hitting you with the baby in the pic now then he might not ever
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