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Mr not interested???

Did anyone find that their Mr wasn't really interested or aware of the.pregnancy before 12 weeks I'm 8 weeks and forever holding my belly and finding out what's happening each week...and he just doesn't seem interested??
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Film what?? And we just don't really have them.here it's not really the norm here I mean people give you pressies but not a baby shower x
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I'm worried cause we're renting out first place together.soon and everything is gonna change I'm worried it's gonna be to much for him I mean ever since he found out we were pregnant all we've done.is.argue I just feel like the only reason he stuck around is cause we're having a baby aaarrrggghhhhh
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Film it..that workd...nd y no babyshower
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You know what they say, a woman becomes a mother the moment she finds out that she's pregnant, but a man doesn't become a father until he sees his child. My boyfriend fluctuates lol sometimes he is super involved and concerned with my pregnancy, but at other times he is still wrapped up in himself and uninterested. Don't take it personally, it's how they cope with the daunting responsibilities of fatherhood.
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Yea he wasn't really interested in anything before but eventually he started becoming the pregnant one reading books and finding out baby tips and shopping for baby and everything he's so annoying now lol
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It just seems like he doesn't care, we live in.England so it won't be a baby shower unfortunately lol I've got this.Diddy little pouch I've got midwives app in 12 days.x
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I think its kind of normal for men to not be as excited or interested in all of it (the pregnancy) than we are. They usually start to come around once things start happening on the outside. Bigger belly, buying clothes, baby shower, babies room. Everything for us is happening inside and outside but its only happening on the exterior for them I'm sure he will come around sooner than later! Congrats!
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I'm 19 weeks and it wasn't till 17 he really became more connected with it all, I only started showing recently and I think that's why!
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