Look i dont know im in the same situation but my story short, he was there at first we broke up he decided to come back after a couple months and bcuz my sister told him im having twins, so we tryed it out again and again and really all he has done is just buy carseats with stroller and 1 play-yard. I did the rest by myself so he wants me to put his last name but im just not sure to do so. I say dont actually since he hasnt helped you at all.
Why would you honor him that way when he is treating you so badly? It sure gives him no incentive to treat you any better if he can get such good things without having to lift a finger.
With my kids and the one I'm pregnant with now if the dad isn't around or hasn't helped like mine hasnt I wouldn't all my kids have my last name cause their dad wasn't around
Well if he hasn't been there and you don't want to it is your choice. I wouldn't do it. Why should he have the right to that if he hasn't helped? That's just my opinion but ultimately its your choice.