Serious Relationship Advice

[Schaina]

Hey mommies I'm currently 4 & a half months pregnant with my first child . I'll be 21 in October and honestly I feel like a single parent already and my baby hasn't even entered this world yet . I'm not with the father of my child and my mind is in a million different places one min I love him and want our family back the next I want nothing to do with . since I've found out I was expecting my family and I have been doing everything for me like getting to doctors appointments & so on I honestly thinks he has another chick but I'm always left  with the b's excuses on why he can't do certain things to help me and my baby out . I know I don't need to be stressing but its so terribly hard not to .. SORRY SO LONG BUT ANY ADVICE WILL HELP THANKS

[Schaina]

no this would be his second but his first son . I can't openly sit and talk to him because his response is I'm emotional or I'm tripping so I try to let things go but when I get some alone time all I do is think about the situation I believe I'll be okay but its bothering me right now

[monie2]

Yessss i feel yu is this his first child?? If it is myb wen he holds his baby he will change myb its unreal to him right now never know what the future holds i think yu gonna be okay tho just sit an talk with he openly on how you feel

[Schaina]

I hope so because I totally don't want my kid around this messed up situation I'm in . but I hate the thought of raising a baby alone

[monie2]

Right its crazy cause yu would think **** would turn out on way an its wayy different guys are so unpredictable but dont stress an know everything is happening for a reason an working out for your good took me a long time to realize that till taday i still cry over my situation WITH my babyfather but im getting much stronger an u will to u stronger then u think

[Schaina]

thanks for the advice but it just has my mind blown that with my first baby I'd be in this situation

[monie2]

I think if a man really love you he will do anything in his power to be there an to prove that just focus on u and your baby i know its hard trust ikno but be strong you can do it an if you have a feeling its another female most likely us females are right so listen to that voice