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7153552 tn?1397682278

Young single momma :(

I'm 20 & a half weeks along! I'm only 16 & have to do this all by myself. The father doesn't want anything to do with me nor the baby. Im kicked out of school, live with my pregnant momma too. It's so stressful! Always thinking about how im going to do this. Many times I just wanna give up all together. Can all this stress hurt my baby?! :(
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I'm going thru the same thing except my moms not pregnant and I feel you my baby daddy only wants to be friends and nothing else he doesn't even seem to care about our baby and it's fustrating and he's never there I always try to tell him but he doesnt listen to how I feel .. anyways just be strong and think about what's best for ur baby (: good luck
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In life we go through many ups and downs , unfortunately sweetie this is one of your downs.. However you will find strength from somwhere and you will prive to your baby's father that you can do this without him.. take care of yourself and your baby one day you'll look back and smile BECAUSE YOU DID IT  GOOD LUCK MAMMA XXXX
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7153552 tn?1397682278
Thank you very much!
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That's the way to think! As you progress in your pregnancy your ambitions grow stronger[: You're a strong girl, you can do it!
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4503521 tn?1400858886
Go online skys the limit with God all things are possible!
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7153552 tn?1397682278
Thank you too all! It means so much! I try to keep my chin up! & have much support from my family! Schooling is the next important thing in my life after my baby! If im not able to get back into school while pregnant then im for sure going to look into other programs avaible!
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I am kinda in the same situation.. SO stressed out too and I feel like its not good for the baby but I'm just trying to be positive but its so hard and I'm just hoping when I have the baby it will provide me with the strength in life to keep going..
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6177289 tn?1379440011
I got pregnant at 15 had him at 16. There are many women out there who have the ability to raise a child at that age but I was not. I was not in a place to be able to raise a child. I placed my son for adoption. Best decision I ever made!!
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You can do it! Don't let this situation put you down, what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. Power to you honey for being a young mom & responsible<3 Things will get better:)
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You can do it girl, try to get bk into school after baby born, even if it's just a Ged but a diploma better. I know it's hard I got pregnant at 16 & his dad was never around. Now he 3 & doing just fine.
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