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fckin mother-in-laws!!!!!

I just need to vent but my mother in law is driving me up the freakin wall!!!!!!!! She has moved in with me and my bf because she couldn't afford to live on her own anymore.... but since she has moved in she tries to run the place as if it were her own!!!! She doesn't load the dishwasher right so the dishes don't get clean and I end up having to wash them by hand a second time!! I've asked her nicely and told her how it works and the woman just don't listen!!!!! We gave her our whole basement and she will still not leave us alone my bf smokes and she comes upstairs complaining about smoke!!! I don't even complain and I'm the pregnant one!!!! She constantly treats my bf like her husband not her son she wants him to do and be everything her mechanic, decorator, mover, PC tech, lawyer, therapist, friend, son, bank, errand runner, counselor, shoulder, doctor, nail tech, servant!!!! And I'm going bonkers!!!!! He's tried telling her but she just cries and cries and gives us the silent treatment for days I swear she is more moody then my prego butt I just don't know what to do anymore because if we go places for her and ask for gas money she freaks out and get super offended this is her 4th grandchild and my dads first and she is getting mad that my dad is buying the baby things first like his first Teddy bear and toy she has no right to get mad in my opinion!!! It's his grandbaby too!!! If she wants to by the baby things then she needs to stop wasting money on her stupid **** and spend it on real things!!!! Aaaaahhhhhhhh I just wanna scream!!!!!!!!!! And punch her in the mouth everytime I see her!!!!!!!ok phew end of vent thank u ladies for letting me share :-)
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Lol. Im lucky to have a great mother in law. Maybe you all need to have a screaming match with her to make her undetstand. Tell he she'll have to go if she doesnt stop.
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1794093 tn?1357930759
Im right there with kfrasher! i see my MIL way too much and she talks to my BF almost EVERYDAY on the phone!! She also does what she wants in my house and it drives me bonkers!
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1959722 tn?1338778115
My mother in laws aren't that bad lol but I still wouldn't want to live with them. I'm really sorry it sounds like you're super stressed.
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glad mine lives in anouther state
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Omg...i would die if i had to live with my MIL (aka) the wicked witch of the west!!! i am so sorry you have to deal with that on top on being preggo!!!
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1927715 tn?1392055940
Can I join!?!?!? My mil was living with my brother in law she came for her usual weekend.visit with us not knowing she was.fighting with my brother in law. Needless to say she never left and ended up living with us for two years!!!!! Two freaking years! She thought it was her house. Did everything her way. She has no income.so we paid for everything. She.smoked like a pack a day and my husband kept buying.for her. I felt bad.for him bc he didn't know how to say no to her since he has a small family as it is. Then she said she was moving to tenn and the day she was moving was the day she.told us she was going to live with his dad! Um couldn't she had done that 2 years ago? Then just last week my husband had to take off work to take her to the doctors 2with hrs away pay for the gas the parking her food and then she had the.nerve to ask foe him to get her $40stuff prescription. I was sooooo mad. How dare she mooch off him
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