fckin mother-in-laws!!!!!

[Zombonnie]

I just need to vent but my mother in law is driving me up the freakin wall!!!!!!!! She has moved in with me and my bf because she couldn't afford to live on her own anymore.... but since she has moved in she tries to run the place as if it were her own!!!! She doesn't load the dishwasher right so the dishes don't get clean and I end up having to wash them by hand a second time!! I've asked her nicely and told her how it works and the woman just don't listen!!!!! We gave her our whole basement and she will still not leave us alone my bf smokes and she comes upstairs complaining about smoke!!! I don't even complain and I'm the pregnant one!!!! She constantly treats my bf like her husband not her son she wants him to do and be everything her mechanic, decorator, mover, PC tech, lawyer, therapist, friend, son, bank, errand runner, counselor, shoulder, doctor, nail tech, servant!!!! And I'm going bonkers!!!!! He's tried telling her but she just cries and cries and gives us the silent treatment for days I swear she is more moody then my prego butt I just don't know what to do anymore because if we go places for her and ask for gas money she freaks out and get super offended this is her 4th grandchild and my dads first and she is getting mad that my dad is buying the baby things first like his first Teddy bear and toy she has no right to get mad in my opinion!!! It's his grandbaby too!!! If she wants to by the baby things then she needs to stop wasting money on her stupid **** and spend it on real things!!!! Aaaaahhhhhhhh I just wanna scream!!!!!!!!!! And punch her in the mouth everytime I see her!!!!!!!ok phew end of vent thank u ladies for letting me share :-)

[kfrasher]

I could NEVER live with my MIL!!! She lives 12 mins away and we see  her abt 4 times a week and that it way too much for me!! Plus she calls  constantly!! I feel for you honey!!!!!! Your stronger than I could ever be! Hope she isn't a permenant live in!!

[babybonita]

Sorry about your situation. Its never a good idea to live w/ family. You'll end up resenting her. Sometimes in life we're put in these situations. Your hubby should approach her & let her know this a temporary thing, that way you'll finally see light at the end of the tunnel. Stand your ground.  My hormones would be rising. Hopefully you'll get some peace & quiet!
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[msgorgeous]

That would drive Me crazy... she sounds like a top notch mother in law LOL i feel your pain