feeling alone :/

[gatorgrl12]

So tonight my husband has gone out. He never does. And I don't mind at all that's not the case. Its his best friends birthday and all they will be doing is fighting over Xbox controllers all night lol I'm good on missing out. But my kids are fast asleep and its empty and not a sound and I'm going insane! I feel alone and my anxiety is threw the roof. I never get like this :/ I don't like it :(

[mireyAND]

We are in that one car position too :( and my husband would live on his Xbox if I let him lol but since weekends are his only time off we made a deal, Saturday he spends time with me and we go out and everything. Sunday night he stays up and plays after I go to bed. It helps a little

[Flory24]

I totally know what you mean. We just moved to a new town and only have one car so I feel like in trapped in our house when my husband is at work and when he's home he just wants to play Xbox so I feel even more alone, the fact that he's home but totally forgets about me kinda hurts. Can't wait to finally have my baby to keep me company.

[mireyAND]

I hate not having friends close by too! Being alone makes me stalk fb  pinterest like nobody's business lol. I started writing letters to baby in a journal to give to her when she's older, it's a good way to right down my thoughts to her and take my mind off being alone

[mrs_araujo]

I wish he was more understanding of how I feel. He just thinks I over react or that I'm mean to him! I do my best to make him happy but every time I turn around he says I'm doing something or acting wrong. :/.

[snrich7420]

Im really lonely tonight too... My bf went to phoenix for 10 days nd It was last min thing. I couldn't go so I've been alone all day... I live in Denver and donthave any friends close so its gonna make time go by.skslow... My bf is all I have :(

[gatorgrl12]

Lol what man isn't!!?

[mrs_araujo]

He's hard headed lol its hard to ever get a point across to him

[gatorgrl12]

I agree.
Keep pushing the matter.
Maybe he just needs to warm up to it.

[mireyAND]

I hope he comes around. Maybe he could talk to baby or read to him in your belly. Start bonding early :)

[mrs_araujo]

I can deal with it, just sad sometimes. I just wish he would have touched my belly he did one time and freaked out!  Thought it was weird and scared he would hurt the baby. Maybe I can get him to come around to touching my belly this pregnancy.

[gatorgrl12]

I'm sorry girl.
Hope you make some mommy friends soon :)

[gatorgrl12]

My husband is so into feeling baby and all.
But my best friend is pregnant and her husband will not go near her. She gets so upset. He says he doesn't want to hurt baby and all but she just feels a void. I try my best to fill it for her. But never will be able lol but I try to keep track of her Dr visits and all so at least someone can make her feel happy.

[mireyAND]

I'm always alone :/ my husband works in the oil industry, works at least 15 hrs every night, sleeps all day until it's time for work. We moved to a new town for his job so I don't know anyone. Definitely ready for my baby to be here to keep me company lol

[gatorgrl12]

Oh my. I could only imagine rejection is 10x harder when pregnant!
I'm sorry :(
Is he afraid of hurting baby?
You need him more when your pregnant!

[mrs_araujo]

My husband doesn't like being around when I'm pregnant :( he wouldn't touch my belly or anything during my first pregnancy said he was scared! :/

[gatorgrl12]

Aw. I'm so sorry you feel that way.
Have you tried telling him how you feel?
I'm very lucky to have the kind of man who is even fonder of me when I'm pregnant. I couldn't imagine feeling alone when he is in the same home :(
I decided to snuggle up with my daughter. Made me feel much better.

[mrs_araujo]

My husband and daughter are asleep. I feel so upset :(  and lonely like he never wants to be around me :/

[KensleysMom]

Blame your hormones.