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one of my cousins friends tried to fight me while I'm pregnant n is spreading rumors about me like idk who my bd is n saying i have gential herpes virus which i know isnat true then my cousin takes up for her n still hangs with her my GMA won't help me when I'm sick my mom smokes around me knowin its making me sick people are saying I shouldn't have a baby saying ill be unfit an all this extra when I been raising kids all my life my mom was on drugs raised my self from pre k till now GMA was a drunk who really has no room to talk when I've took care of all my cousins as a kid raising kids I'm extremely hurt by my family I've made it to 24 next month this is my first kid mind you all my younger cousins have kids and are as I see unfit I'm confused on how they treat me like I'm used goods when I've done so much for them they hate my be cause he has two kids n hates his bm like why is that their business life is crazy I have no friends either so idk about even having a baby shower they call me a secondary babymama.... Wait my bds bm actually cares more about my pregnancy then my own family that's the killer
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I'm so awesome I love me so much they can't take that away I'm the bomb *******
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Just remember you are so beautiful you are creating life and God has a plan for you don't let anyone bash you and make you feel bad you are strong and you will make it
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People celebrate these teen pregnancies but bash me for being almost 25 n just starting like I'm ruining my life hello my life is just getting started motherhood is life
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People celebrate these teen pregnancies but bash me for being almost 25 n just starting like I'm ruining my life hello my life is just getting started motherhood is life
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Hard to say but at times in your life you may have to block out family...I'm 30 yrs old married and have my own but my family disapproves of me having a baby because they don't like my husband, I've been told I'm stupid, I need to abort...it has really hurt me but I have came to a point in my life that I had to block them out and worry just about me and my baby...people even family will always have something to say there the ones you don't need to be around...just focus on you and your baby!!!
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Oh, thanks!  I was confused!!  ha ha.

Well, it honestly sounds like the cousin some serious issues.  I'd stay away!  I can't stand it when someone lies about me and can see why you're so mad and hurt!  I would minimize the situation by just not responding and maybe it will die down quicker.  People like that are so dangerous.  To just make something up like that and spread it as a rumor is unforgivable.  

I'm glad you at least have your BD's family.  But I'm sure you feel so let down by your own!  

And that you have a terrific relationship with your bd . . .   that's the key.  Keep that strong and others won't matter as much!!  Think positive things today and stay strong!  peace
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Bd ...baby dad ... Bm his babymama GMA ... My granny I'm a only child from my mom I have my BDS family but no real friends I'm very pretty n girls have never really liked me because I'm very alluring and have gotten more beautiful during pregnancy I think my family well my cousin is jelly because her n her bd are together but he ain't no good he cheat n lie I've never seen them show affection as far as my bd we knew each other since 14 n reconnected and immediately started working on a family I mean day one we have so much love for each other people hate it

My cousin feels I took him from his family when really him a his bm was broken up for a yr n only was together for his kids she was his sex buddy not doing her or anything but its the truth if she can accept this why can't they
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What the heck is your cousin doing that for?  What could she possibly gain to be so hurtful to you?  

Sounds like a big mess.  I would keep your distanced from them AND the rumors.  

I had trouble with all the abbreviations and wasn't sure who all you were talking about. But do you have any siblings or your mom that is normal?  supportive?  On your side?
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Yea that's crazy. I mean yea u grown damn near 24 at least you didn't have a your 1st child at a young age. What ever you didn't have growing up just make sure you give yo baby the world that's all that matter...I agree some family members ain't **** & really don't have room to talk....even tho yo bd bm Care about what's going on hell it counts....somebody looking after you & urs even if it's ya family
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