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Im 20 weeks along and I'm doing everything alone. i gave the father a choice to be around more than once. he has 2 kids already and their mothers won't let him be around but he wants to. i don't understand why my child is any different. i told him he has until the baby is born to make up his mind. am i wrong for that? i just don't want a man walking in and out of my child's life.
I'm in the same boat. I gave the father more then one chace. He showed up to two doctor's appt just to turn around and leave once he got there. He never heard his sons heartbeat. I told him about the ultrasound so we can find out the sex of the baby together but he never showed up that was the last straw for me. I will not tell him anything about the baby again. He wants to know about his son he will try. I have tried and I'm done.He will have to take me to court now to see the baby.Go with your heart.
Girl jus pray an keep faith wats 4 u shall b it might b tough but rite now focus on ur self an baby if he wants 2b part of u all lives he *** around time will tell hunni...........Neva make a man feel u ova need him even if ur in luv
Girl jus pray an keep faith wats 4 u shall b it might b tough but rite now focus on ur self an baby if he wants 2b part of u all lives he *** around time will tell hunni...........Neva make a man feel u ova need him even if ur in luv
So, are you saying he doesn't want to see your baby? Sorry, I didn't fully understand the situation. But, if he doesn't want to or isn't sure about it, don't give him the option @ all of doing so. I'm done w/ my baby's father until after it's born so he can take a test.
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First off , I honestly do not believe that those two kids mothers are keeping the kids away from him . Have you sat down & talked to both of these kids mothers to see what the main reason was? Because, if you are going off of what he's telling you then 9 times out of 10 he has lied , & it may be that he is choosing not to be apart of those poor kids lives. But, as for you being a third babymama from him , you honestly are going to get the same treatment as the past two baby's mothers. These men nowadays will do anything to not take care of a child & you will learn that. If he's showing you that he's not going to be there for you now , then believe you will be another single parent!
Congratulations. What exactly are you expecting him to do right now? Are you sure you and him are together? (Based off what you've described) It doesn't seem like it. That may be why he is acting that way. I would get clarity to see where he really stands. Your baby should be your 1st priority.
they aren't telling him that he can't be in my child's life. they are telling him that he can't see his other kids. No one in his family even knows about me. I've met his boys once before and he does every thing he can for them. Just seeing the way he looked at them just hurt because he doesn't want to be around my child. there is an age gap between us and I'm not sure if that's what scares him. i just didn't want my child to not have their father. it feels like it was a mistake on my part but i got such a good blessing out of it
He needs to man up n talk to his baby mama m let her know that he wants to be there for all his kids n she can't keep him from seeing or being with u n his child.... Or he need to have a sit down n talk with the both of u n u guys all figure out what's best for the kids....but that's just me good luck :)
Sound slide my babies daddy such a douche.... He hasn't bee there at all this pregnancy he has 2 kids as well boy and girl age 4 and 5 and nd he has full custody of them the mother isn't in th picture but he has a girlfriend and supposedly he says he is not allowed to go to my apps or even talk to me.. If he quote on quote can't talk to me when the baby is not here how the he'll am I supposed to believe he will be allowed to be there when she is here wtf I've moved on I'm over it ... congrats girl and you will be fine with him there or not
You have every right to feel the way that you do! He needs to make a conscious effort to be there for the baby! It's not fair for you to do it alone
No youre not wrong. I just dont see why they can dictate his life? He has another child now and they need to realize, that baby is just as important as theirs?
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