am i wrong for being sad?

[mrscollins23]

Friday is my next appointment at the health department and they'll check the fundamental height and heartbeat. My husbands ex boss texted him needing his help that day. I'm absolutely heartbroken because he will miss hearing the heart beat and I won't have him there supporting me and God forbid what if something was wrong?! I don't like thinking that way so I'm gonna try not to. I'm just really sad and he can't understand why. Maybe I'm being selfish idk.

[mrscollins23]

Yes you are right I know you are but it really ***** BC its our first baby. Hopefully everything will go alright and he can come to the next one.

[mrscollins23]

I don't really have a close friend sounds pathetic I know

[kennimae]

I dont think your selfish but I would try not to let it bother you either. My husband cant make it to any appointments and because of school cant stay with me in the hospital (over night or during the day but can come visit at night) when I am there for the two days after delivery. They got to do what they got to do to provide for their family.

[calico236]

You are not selfish at all! I'm sorry :( maybe a good friend could go with you just for support?  Work schedules suck.

[mrscollins23]

I understand that I guess it bothers me because when I had a early vag ultrasound that lady wouldn't let him come back with me and now he's gonna missing hearing the heart beat. But your right I should be more understanding.

[rebeccaann11]

I wouldn't feel. bad guys work schedules are very hard. especially to fit around doctors appointment. I think with my daughter my boyfriend was only there for 2 or 3, maybe!