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hate...
Ever since my husband bought a 60 $ game and neither of us have jobs. I hate him. He keeps calling me selfish bc I went to the store and bought 1 pair of maturnity jeans for 15 $. I was going to get more than one pair but he said they all look stupid on me. According to him I'm selfish. I have no pants and winter is almost here. I'm 6 months pregnant. I hate him. I have been feeling like this for the past 3 days. I want nothing to do with him and he just keeps calling me selfish and btch.
Just quit smoking, and as for ur bf, I would just leave. Ur going to cause stress on urself and worst on ur baby
He constantly accuses me of having someone on the side when I'm always with him. I can't raise this baby on my own. My mom is the only person I have here on my side. I don't want her to be the daddy bc he don't want sht to do with me. I have been looking for a job bc one of us has to have money coming in. He says its all about money. Yes it is bc we have someone coming into this world that needs us.
Girl go buy yourself 30 damn pairs. Your body is changing. Not his. He's clearly the selfish inconsiderate POS. Go to your mom. You're stressing over a game. Tell him "you wanted to spend on a game? I want to spend time alone. Because time is all I have since you won't find a job. Either you find one or leave me and my pregnancy alone"
I asked him to take it back and he won't. I asked him not to get it until we got money coming in but he didny want to wait. I know its not right for me to smoke. I know. I said maybe I will go stay at my moms tonight his words: if you do I want nothing to do with you. But yet according to him I'm the selfish one bc I wanted more than one pair of maturnity jeans and without him telling me that they look dumn on me or **** like that
So i guess you didn't suggest he take them back after he plays it... All this stress probably wouldn't have happened if you just tried rationalizing with him..I've tested this in my bf.It really lowers the stress in our relationship and maybe you can stike a deal.. You take the maternity pants back after your not pregnant, keep the receipt, if he takes the game back later on
Id punch him in the face, u need maternityfo pants! And as far as that stupid game I'm with them snap the ******* thing. Ur not selfish, clothing is a necessity games are not. I can't judge you for smoking, I haven't been able to quit myself. Me personally, when my man gets in a mood like that I simply tell him to stop being an A$$ hole or I'm gonna go hang out somewhere else. Usually shuts him up
Okay shawna. That's over the top. She needs advice. She doesn't wanna be on Jerry Springer here. The moral is stop smoking because it's harming your baby and leave. That's it.. I'm sure you'll stop right?
honey I wish I could help you I know that feeling..... because they make you feel so bad for something so small you need to grab your boobs by the straps and get out of there you must have some family around or someone that loves your cares for you... u know what's best for you and the baby.... obvuiously u need time away.. maybe that will open his eyes.... good luck if you need someone to talk to send me a message and ill get you ny email
You're right he shouldn't talk to you like that but why put your baby in.danger because of something your man is doing? That's a little stupid. "let's hurt my baby because my boyfriend/husband hurt me" you're being selfish to, towards your child. If you hate him like you say you do, it should be easy for you to leave him. but personally if you can hate him over a stupid video game, then you never really did love him.
Of course he doesn't. And I don't assume you're going to let it continue right? & just as much as he doesn't have the right to verbally abuse you- you have no right to abuse your child physically. You are. Your child is developing. And the smoking is irrelevant to your smoking. Because he's not pregnant and he's not the one smoking. It's you. So is think twice. Anyway, aside from that, I think it's best if you leave. Can you go to a siblings or moms or something?
Wait. I missed the smoking part... I don't think you should've even gone that far. That's like me saying. Well I'm stressed I need cocaine. Please don't do it again. You're putting your child at risk and giving him the benefit of the doubt.
I have no idea what to do. I'm so stressed. I want to stop smoking but I can't it helps me not give a fck about his attitude or the way he treats me.
Omg, my fiance would never speak to me like that! U should not stand for that! I would break that damn game if he wants to act like a little kid. Tell him to get off his *** and get a job and be a man!
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