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Im so scared im haveing a baby and im not ready for mood swings and being depress and im so worryed for the father because i havent heard from him
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134578 tn?1693250592
like one of the other posters *said*
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134578 tn?1693250592
If he asks "how far are you willing to go for me?" that is likely to mean he did something wrong and he is running away from it.  I don't necessarily mean he did a crime, but it sounds like he was trying to decide what to do about your relationship in the face of his plans to escape something.  If he had known you were pregnant, the question could have meant, are you willing to have an abortion because I don't want to have a baby.  The late, great Maya Angelou said, "When someone shows you who they are for the first time, believe them."  He did show you, and it is not worth crying.  Tell his dad you are pregnant, so if he calls his dad he will know, and then see if he comes back and mans up, or if he stays gone.  That will tell you everything.

I'm sorry, but like one of the other posters, sometimes you're better off without such a guy.
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I havent heard from and no he dosent know  but what does it mean when someone ask u how far are u willing to go for me? im getting angry feel like crying
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Yeah I don't know what he meant by that at all. Just try and get ahold of him even if you have to message him on Facebook just let him know you are. And if he freaks or says mean things to because a lot of guys do that just ignore him he is unnessecary yo have around and he will get it when child support comes into play. But be happy. And we're here to help with anything you need advice on.
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Then forget him!! Worry about you and you baby! My bf/bd tried to pull that **** at first to. Like " if you really love me you will have a ab". I told him yea I love you but I love my blood/seed and my body more! I'm 33 weeks now and he's still here and jus as ready as I am to have our baby girl!
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I havent heard from and no he dosent know  but what does it mean when someone ask u how far are u willing to go for me? im getting angry feel like crying
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Does he know you're pregnant? And just stay positive you don't need the baby dad to be around to be happy. And I never got depressed hut if you do the doctor can prescribe something safe for you.
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I havent even heard from the dad last time we spoke was 2weeks ago and he asked me how far am i willing to go for him like wtf that means
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Take a breath and try and keep calm. Things will work out in the end the more you worry about your mood the worse it will be and a lot of times you will know when you are being irrational and can catch yourself
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8814799 tn?1405046494
I never got depressed  yet during my pregancy so far . But I have bad mood swings and the father of my baby gets it bad.  At least he only has to put up with it for 109 more days.
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Its easy said then done
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you should think positive just cuz your pregnant doesn't mean u will have mood swings or be depressed i never got depressed or had mood swings all pregnancies are different
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