My bf is happy that we are having a baby. i'm going into my 12 week, don;t know the gender . He's hoping for a baby girl. He has been with me to the Drs apt & ultrasound, he asks questions to the dr regarding our health. Even the DR assistant says "how cute & lucky I got that he cares , so much about us" cz usually when the men go they're usually on their phone, or don't ask much.
He's always encouraging me to eat healthy, drink water and get my rest since I work as a Certified Nurse assistant (CNA), 8hrs a day, 5 days a week, always on my feet. tells me not to argue with my family and keep calm. He loves me, he's a nice guy, but I don't know what's wrong with him regarding Job wise?
He got laid off his job last week :( & we were planning to look for a cheap place to move in together. Since then he hasn't applied to no job! I keep telling him & start telling that I think : "He's not serious with me, he doesn't care about our baby, and doesn't want to try"
He gets mad at me, telling him that I'm putting him down instead of encouraging him. I do love him and we've been together thru bad and good times, but now that we're pregnant I expect more from him. I just want us to be ready for our baby & have as much money saved up as we can.
I just get frustrated and I don't know what else to tell him ????
He says he will get apply soon , and get a job, but when ?? It gets me mad, sad, frustrated that he doesn't have a job at the moment specially because I know I'm gonna have to move out.
I'm always prepared if I'm gonna have to be a single mommy. I'm just going to have to work double hard.
Any advice, thank you .....