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[corrissac]

how many of you ladys were married at a young age? (how old were you?) did it work out? (or what went wrong?) how does this affect your children?

thanks in advance. writing a paper would love to know ppls storys. no judgement on anyone.

[Modestmuslimah]

Me and my hbmuby were highscholl sweethearts. I met him when I was 15 he was 19. (all of this before we came to Islam :) )we both reverted to Islam 2 years ago and decided to finally do things the right way and got married this past March. I was 20 when we got married now I'm 21 and expecting out first baby this month hopefully within next 2to 3 weeks! I love being married and wouldn't change anything ! I don't believe we either are to young ...

[Jagonsalves]

I met my husband when I was 16 yrs old, we moved in together when I was 19. We didnt get married until our 5 yr anniversary,  we were in no rush. But just because we didnt have a piece of paper saying we were married all those years dosent mean we didnt have struggles like any married couple. We just knew our love for each other was more important and worked them out. My husband was my first, and I think thats rare now a days to onky be with one man but when u find someone who makes u happy why change anything.  I am now expectinf our first child in December,  and can't wait.  

[skullsncrossbows]

I was 22 years old. (I'm 24 now)
Legally we are still married and not legally seperated even though we don't live together and havent in some time.
I married a man who left me 17 weeks into our planned pregnancy because he came back around and concieved when she was just over a week he wanted to be a family.
Shortly after being married, I felt like he was using my car to get drugs, not doing his share of baby duty and when I told him things like that I got beat up,...twice in the span of 5 months of living together. I have an order of protection on him. After my daughter turned  a year old I started going after him for child support. He said we aren't together and hes just her step father because he isn't on her birth certificate and she doesn't have his last name. I had to prove he was the dad through dna and when I did he still hasn't done **** for her and now she's 28 months old.I found out when court was done his new "fiance" wrote me on facebook with picture she stole of my kid next to pics of them and her, some sexual saying him and her were f*cking when we were first married.

[EstieRea]

I got married at 18, husband was 20. We started dating, and since the beginning we just knew. One day he was like "you know were going to get married right?" && we did, four months later. We've been married for about two years (it'll be two years in Nov) && I'm due in December. We've had our UPS and downs, but I'm so glad we went through those downs because It has made us appreciate each other more.  

[BrayBriMy2Girls]

I am 25 yrs... i have been with my hubby since 2002 we didn't feel we had to be married. Untill we wanted another child....  I got preggers in 2008 with our first daughter and now she is 4 and we are having another girl 2/4/13 ish.. i will be truthful. .. its a lot of hard work. Ive had to work threw tons of things. Somw that most womn would walk away...And didn't think we would last. Just always have truthful communication. And when you have been with someone for so long you tend to know what they are thinking or next move. It tough but I wouldn't trade him for anything. ..

[LeafyBoots]

No one has said how her young marriage has affected her children ( I.e.  negatively,  positively,  not in any particular way)
Full feedback is probably most helpful to the OP (original post/poster)

[aishj84]

I got married at 17 , I had converted to islam and we hve been happily married for 12 years and im pregnant wif our 3rd bub now due dec , getting married young has had  no negative impact on my life or my childrens

[anm89]

Me and my husband met when I was 18, friends for a few weeks then started dating. A year later we were planning a wedding and got pregnant on purpose because my Dr said I couldn't so we wanted to at least try, which succeeded lol. We got married when I was 19 my husband was 22. Now we have a beautiful 4yr old son. My husband is almost 27 and I'm 24 and currently 27 weeks 3 days pregnant with our daughter. =) It has been a magical 6 years =) I love him so much more now. I still get butterflies when he kisses my forehead.

[Emi10172013]

My husband and I met when I was 13 and he was 18 things didn't work out for us then and we lost contact in March of 2011 when i was 18 and he was 24 we got in contact with each other again through Facebook we started talking and had our first date on April 2, 2011 we fell in love with each other and fast and on June 11, 2011 we were married I'm now 21 and he is 26 and we are expecting our second child in 4 days

[ajones09]

my husband and I been together 8 years in jan and married for 4 1/2 years. we started dating when we were 17 years old. im now 24 (him 25) and pregnant with our third child which a girl due on Valentine's day. we have a 5 yr old daughter nd a 15month son and going strong!

[jjjsgirl]

Me and my husband knew each other our whole lives we are 4 days apart. our moms were goods friends. We started dating dec 2005 we were 15 we got engaged  at 17 found out I was pregnant when we were 20 we got married in April 2010 we had are first Oct 2010 a baby boy we had our second Aug 2013 a baby girl. He is my life long friend and my soul mate its been amazing 7 years almost 8 years being together I'm looking forward to spending the rest of my life with him and growing are family!

[corrissac]

what do you or your husband do to keep the relationship exciting, interesting, && not get board of each other?

[Dorothyelyse]

I was 16 when I got pregnant. my husbAnd asked me to marry him in front Joe Cinderellas castle at Disney world. we didn't get married until our daughter was two years old. currently we have been married for a year and are on baby number 2.   We've been together 4years total. I'm 20 same he is 25.

[corrissac]

wow. solemomma, i gotta give u credit. 6kids, how do u do it and not go insane? i go crazy just with my 1 and im thinking how am i gonna do it with 2.

[solemomma6]

My husband and I got married when I was 17, we have been together for 10 and a 1/2 years now and we are pregnant with our 6th child. :)

[corrissac]

what are some things you or your husband do to keep the relationship exciting?

[Galvez]

My hubby n I got married after i graduated high school n started college n I turned 18 n he was. 21 in Aug. 2008.  In 2010 we had our first bby girl and present future. 2013 expecting our second its.  6years married n still strong like everybody else I'm shure we've had our upsn downs but I think for us it our made us stronger n rekindled our love!!! Its exciting to think were. 4years shy of 10yrs!!! But with gods blessinng I hope we make it till we get old n die like we said in our vouls! !!!

[shyloveskai]

Ive been with my husband since age 16. We not actually married legally but spiritually we know were married. Weve been engaged for 4 years. Together for 6. Started living together at 18. We had our daughter at 19. Now our baby boy is due January. Were 22, and 23 now. After the baby comes i wont need my dads insurance anymore and we can finally make it official. :) if you knew our whole story it would really impress, as ive been through hell and back, and this man took care of me through it all! Had a broken pelvis at 17 and i can hardly walk already at 6 months along (literally) i know they will have to induce me early just like my first pregnancy. I will not be able to stand without assistance. Luckily i can walk normally once the pregnancy ends :) !! (sorry for the long story)

[LuvinMyBoysJLP]

Ive been married to my hubby for almost 3 years but we've been together almost 8. I was 18 when I had my son, 20 when I got married now I'm 22 due with my second boy in January. It hasn't been easy we've been through a lot but we always get through it together. <3

[corrissac]

these are some amazin storys. im due nov. 10th with a boy. second child. also have a 21mo old daughter been with my fiance 5years. met when i was 13. im 18 now. we were suppose to get married august but money was tight so idk when it will happen. do u guys have any tips to keep the relationship fresh? Spicy? lol..

[TayyB2706]

My husband and I were high school sweet hearts I was 14 he was 16 but we were in the se grade (i skipped a grade and he got left back in a grade) we got pregnant prom night and got married Dec. 27, 07.. I was 17 turning 18 in Jan .. my mom had to sign for me and our son was born that Feb .. its been 17 yrs and we've been through some crazy storms (i call it the curse of young love) but its been almost 7 yrs and we have over come so much and there's nobody else I'd rather be with as with him .. its all a matter of how bad you want it and how yall work together to make it last cuz its not an easy road but worth it in the end

[danika0913]

I married my hubby at age 19. I am now 23 almost 24 and he is 30. Im currently pregnant with our second child. We have a 4year old son and now were expecting a little girl in Dec.
We got engaged at our 6month anniversary. It was love at first sight. 3months later i found out we were having a baby and it wasn't a mistake. We were trying to get pregnant. Our marriage is still going strong. Alot of people assume we only got married because of our son. But that was not the case at all. We were engaged before i got pregnant and our son was planned.
We couldn't be any happier than we are. In Feb we will be celebrating our 4yr wedding anniversary and in may it will be 6yrs since we started dating.

[vrh123]

i was 15 when i got married && 15 when i had my dauggter.
i turned 16 the day she turned a month old.
my mom had too sign for me too get marrieed but thats it. .
i"ll be 18 tomorrow & im duee november 11th but im in the e.r now im very excited.(::

[corrissac]

VRH; you were 16 then when you got pregnant? how did that work then? did your parents have to sign okaying it..?