how to get pregnant?

[radhika28]

Hi, im trying to be pregnant, but too scared to allow my hubby to put his penis into my vagina. 1 of my frnz had told me that it hurts a lot, so wenever v try i just cant let myself go loose and use all mu strength to push it away.is there some position that helps to keep the pushing away & allows me to keep calm?

[radhika28]

dont know y people here want to guess the country I belong to! Ofcourse if it is mentioned in my profile that im from Singapore.Instead on discussing on the topic some gals are more interested in checking out for my English grammar.Halo! English has always been my 1st language and im not sure what drives you CRAZY with my posts!

I was suggested to use the KY lubri...but now i read on net that it kills sperms...is it true?

[KellyA74]

Just because very young womens cycles are sometimes more apt to be irregular than women in their early 20;s up.....Not always the case, but I see many posts on here from women in their teens who have very irregular cycles.....Also in this day and age, unfortunately most women have already had sex by their 20's...so I think that people are just trying to figure out your cycles as well as why it may be so painful for you to have sex......

[msgorgeous]

you are from singapore correct? so there fore your traditions and customs are differant from here so i assume i was judging you based on america sorry for that,

[radhika28]

im in my 20s, how does this help u galz to reply?

[msgorgeous]

i wouldnt be worrying about having a baby id concentrate on the realationship between u and your husband above all else....you say hes not interested your putting to much pressure on your self, like i said before take one step at a time, not all woman get pregnant there first or second or even third time,your gonna really have to get over your fear because if you dont im not sure your husband cant take it, but what do i know right,i was just trying to offer advice sorry,

[heatherlynn22]

i still dont see how a person can stand the thought of child birth (imagine squeezing something the size of a watermellon out of a hole the size of a pea....) if they're scared of sex. that just doesn't make sense to me. the pain in child birth is 100x's worse then the pain in sex and with sex....it doesnt even hurt for more then maybe 1-5 minutes.