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408901 tn?1274687198

how to get pregnant?

Hi, im trying to be pregnant, but too scared to allow my hubby to put his penis into my vagina. 1 of my frnz had told me that it hurts a lot, so wenever v try i just cant let myself go loose and use all mu strength to push it away.is there some position that helps to keep the pushing away & allows me to keep calm?
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The only thing I can say about the grammar is that she's from Singapore. If it isn't her first language, English is a very difficult language to learn because our rules are completely different from every other language.

As for the sex thing, KY lubricant kills sperm. A sperm-friendly one is pre-seed if you're still trying to have a baby.
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372206 tn?1235168293
How old are you?
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408901 tn?1274687198
Y i want to get pregnant; I guess the obvious answer is to have a baby :)
I know it is unlikely for most women in this forum to have this fear of sex. I know it hurts even more when I have a baby, but that does not mean that I dont try at all. I joined this forum to check if there were ways I could reduce my fear of the pain.You may want to think of me as foolish that i have never had sex before or am being so transparent to admit that im scared to have sex. But to me the objective is simple, get some inputs, try them for I know I have to bear whatever pain and try to enjoy.
Any more queries?
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419964 tn?1333301906
sorry i meant one not noe lol
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419964 tn?1333301906
exactly why do you wanna be pregnant?  like the other woman said the birth is more painful then sex, so im confused here please enlighten me, im neither married nor am i pregnant as of yet, men crave sex its human nature either you gotta get over your fear or you and your husbands realationship could become rocky, tense, etc.....are you a newly wed? just relax try taking baby steps noe step at a time one night try foreplay, the next time take it a step further. your focused to much on how much it hurts focus more on you and your husbands wants and needs as a couple


the other woman im just curious i heard alot about have oral sex can lower your chances of becoming pregnant im not sure if its true or not.
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408901 tn?1274687198
Hey, u comment a lot on my grammar.
I am interested in knowing what is wrong with the grammar in my post.
Appreciate if you could re-phrase it and send it back to me.
thanks.
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