how to get pregnant?

[radhika28]

Hi, im trying to be pregnant, but too scared to allow my hubby to put his penis into my vagina. 1 of my frnz had told me that it hurts a lot, so wenever v try i just cant let myself go loose and use all mu strength to push it away.is there some position that helps to keep the pushing away & allows me to keep calm?

[radhika28]

Hey gals, appreciate your comments.
I tried last night with the lubricant too.

[Lhnter78]

Why don't you stop putting so much pressure on yourself and your husband.  Just relax, this is suppose to be fun- don't turn it into a stressful situation.  Why don't you try waiting until next weekend after you've had a few days rest and the build up to try again will make you more eager.  Relax, light a candle, have a glass of wine and have some fun, but don't make it a chore

[kelliestarr]

If your afraid of a penis going inside of you what about a 6-9 pound baby coming out of you. The pain of pregnancy is a lot more.

Got to agree with Heatherlynn post.......


it is odd. i don't think i know a married couple who's "scared" of sex. but she could be....and not everyone has the best grammar. (which drives me crazy!) if it is a real post and she is that scared of sex she should REALLY go to counseling. and if she's affraid of the pain...WHY does she want to get pregnant?? the "first time" is a LOT less painful then child birth....

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HI Radhika

I think really the problem is you need to use lubricant. You will find that will help you heaps. Or if you are too nervous about purchasing lubricant, you should try oral sex and that might help as well.

I think all if these have been mentioned by all the ladies previously. I am not sure what positive reply you are looking for. Naturally if you are turned off, you body language is causing your partner to hesitate to put you through any more discomfort.

I think the lubricant is your answer.

[KellyA74]

I'm very confused as to what you're asking here......You received many replies when you posted this back in Feb. with helpful suggestions.....First you say that you don't feel like having yet are excited when you start...which is it?  How old are you?

[radhika28]

I fell sick after we tried 1-2 times, during that time my husband didnt want to force me so we did not have sex. Now I dont feel like having or sometimes i feel he is not so interested, initially when we started, we were both so excited almost every night to try n have sex, suddenly all that excitement and thrill seems to have wiped off!
it frustrates me..the moment he used to get on me and try to push his penis into my vagina, i almost lost the feeling and it became a frustrating event.
I want to overcome this and find a solution, can anyone give a positive answer?thanks.