i'm 6 weeks pregnant

[lavelle86]

I'm on my second child i'm 27 years old, my bf is younger than me the baby i'm making is going to b his first child, he wants to marry me, but i said no cuz he cheated on me be for wat should i do?

[lavelle86]

I'm sorry to hear that, u r right marrage isnt cheap, i want whats best for me, my daughter, the child i'm making thank u soo much, God bless u, ur family

[lavelle86]

U r rite thro, n i wouldnt want to get marry for the wrong reason, i dnt want to end up like my mom, dad

[kirkland88]

my bf is 5 yrs younger than me and asked me to marry him b4 we knew i was preg then cheated on me the wk b4 finding out  and actually confessed even though i knew about it 2 days after i told him about the baby there is no way i will marry him now until he can prove to me that this child as well as i are his number one priority which he has yet to do dont sign up for such a huge commitment until u r for certain thats who u want to be with forever or a really long time i got married really youngv and struggled to get a divorce after it was an abusive relationship and a huge mistake i wish i had never made now that i have moved on and have a 2nd chance i know to be way more certian b4t jumpind in cus if it dont work divorce isnt easy nor cheap and when a child is involved it makes it worse my 1st husband and i didnt have children 2egether but he had three wit 2 other women and one might as well of been mine i havdnt been allowedd 2 c or talk 2 her since i left him and i raised that child for 6 yrs just be careful and consider all factors and always remember the health happiness and safety of your children and you are number one priority

[mamaof4410]

Well maybe you should have thought about it before you became pregnantby him. Not be mean just realistic. If he treats u that way now a baby isn't going to do anything but stress him out. Some guys change some guys don't. I wouldn't marry him just because your pregnant. Tell him he needs to prove that he has changed. Having a baby truly tests a relationships stability. It takes a lot. I hope everything works out for you and I hope he changes for the sake of the baby. I wouldn't marry him for the simple fact he hasn't shown you or given you a reason to. Any fool can make a baby. Good luck. And didn't mean to sound harsh. My uncle has been married and divorced 5xs because they were all pregnant. He's now on #6.

[lavelle86]

We have been together for a year an a couple of months.. i'm scared that he might cheat on me again i been hurt so many of times an i dnt want to put my child, the baby threw it :(

[ShellyLette]

To me it sounds like he just wants to get married because of the baby, and that's not a good enough reason in my eyes. If you're shaky about getting married now then how will you feel when you two actually do tie the knot? Marriage is a big step and both people should be absolutely sure about it. I think you made the right decision, how long have you two been together?